GHON ANGELES
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soft.wen :
I fell in love with a girl who has an avoidant attachment, hoping that I could help her change and ayun nabago ko nga siya at ok naman ang lahat dahil sa patience at efforts na ginawa ko, so ngayon ay may confidence na siya at hindi na siya avoidant sa bagong minamahal niya.
2026-10-09 13:26:17
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sccp 459 :
sometimes, as an avoidant person we ( I don't generalize) are just testing if someone really likes us I mean we want to know kung ano talaga gusto nila samin, so we can avoid being hurt kasi our feelings are genuine and we are not going give to someone who don't deserve. well pag naging totoo ka and you earn our trust maybe we will open our hearts for you. in addition, All avoidant are not the same. (Basta ) HAHAHAHAHHA
2026-09-13 00:38:39
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jett :
@jett:to: R I'm an avoidant, and I guess that's how i lost you. you tried to understand the things I never explained, stayed through the moments that I pushed you away, untill you eventually gave up. Now you're with someone who knows how to love you in all the ways I couldn't. I could of done better, rn I've changed i could love you better this time but it was too late, you're happier with him:) wish you both happiness if only you could read this.
2026-11-09 06:48:37
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c :
I’m truly sorry. I never wanted to become avoidant, but sometimes we have no choice. One side of being avoidant that u never get to see is the regret, not wanting to be that kind of person, and constantly praying to a higher power that u won’t have to be like this. But sometimes, it’s something we feel forced to do, otherwise we’ll end up getting hurt.:) cuz in this world, when I get hurt, I’m the only one there for myself. Because at the end of the day, I’m the only one who has to be me when I’m hurting. I might sound selfish, ik.
2026-11-09 01:01:45
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emo :
"LOVING AN AVOIDANT IS NOT FOR THE WEAK"
2026-09-13 03:02:19
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I fell in love with a girl who had an avoidant attachment. I hoped that I would change her, teach her how to love and be loved. But unfortunately, I never got that girl.
2026-11-09 14:09:25
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✨Chupapi Pro Max✨ :
stop na agad kahit masakit. Yung inaaral mo syang mahalin, pero madali lang para sa kanyang hindi ka pansinin. Mahal ka naman nya pero mas mahal nya sarili nya.
2026-09-12 20:09:04
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Seve :
Ang advice ko sayo, tumakbo kana hangga't maaga pa. You cannot heal an avoidant person useless they wanted too. Proven and tested yan hehehe.
2026-09-12 19:15:46
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Janee𐙚 :
im tired
2026-11-09 16:20:43
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PICHUU :
I'm an avoidant myself but when I meet my right person, I love him so much that I try to change for us .Avoidants can change if they wanna keep that person.
2026-11-09 01:07:14
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clien :
avoidant pag dating sayu piro sa Iba friendly
2026-09-14 05:18:56
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Sevirosh :
Ganyan din ako eh kasi ang hirap basahin ng avoidant person, as a anxious person sobrang hirap gusto ko mapalapit sakanya pero pag feel nya na too much close na nappressure ang mga avoidant, that’s why I set a boundary para respect ko saknya and also respect ko rin sa sarili ko. But the time goes by she learned how to leave her comfort zone because of me, she became more happy and I saw her smiling and laughing genuinely without pressuring her. And until now kami parin she became strong person because she come out to her shell and I’m also happy cause she’s happy.
2026-09-13 01:50:15
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ur_kyle :
meaning
2026-11-09 13:58:09
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HYVE :
To my avoidant baby, I won’t beg this time. Not because I stopped caring, but because I’m starting to understand that love shouldn’t feel like I have to keep proving I’m worth staying for. I see you. Even in your silence. I notice how you disappear when things get overwhelming, how you choose distance over confrontation. And I’ve tried, I really did, to meet you where you are without losing myself in the process. But loving you quietly has been the loudest pain I’ve ever felt. I kept telling myself na “intindihin mo s’ya, gan’to lang talaga siya” while slowly, ako naman yung nauubos. I stayed patient, I stayed soft, even when I felt ignored, even when I felt like I was the only one holding on. And maybe you’ll never fully realize how much I chose you in moments where it would’ve been easier to walk away. I don’t hate you. I don’t blame you. But I’m finally accepting that I can’t be the only one fighting for something that’s supposed to be ours. If you ever come across this, I hope you understand that I didn’t leave because I stopped loving you. I stepped back because I had to start choosing myself too. And if one day you learn how to stay, I hope you remember someone once loved you this gently, this patiently, this real. But for now, I’m letting go of the version of you that only exists when it’s convenient. Still soft, just not losing myself anymore iloveyou kylie.
2026-09-13 03:17:02
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rio :
Been there for almost 3 years, pero ngayon hindi na ako nagmamakaawa na kausapin niya ako pag ayaw niya. Hindi ko na rin siya kinukulit kapag nao-overwhelm siya. Thank God kasi this time, mas naintindihan ko na siya. As someone na anxious, lagi ko rin naiisip before, bakit ba tayo nag-i-stay sa avoidant? Siguro kasi we love them. Pero I also realized na kailangan mo rin maintindihan kung ano yung naging buhay nila before you came into their life, yung environment na kinalakihan nila, and yung mga bagay na pinagdaanan nila. Yung taong hirap kang makausap kasi they keep things to themselves, minsan hindi naman dahil ayaw nila sayo. Baka iniisip lang nila na mas mahihirapan ka kapag sinabi nila sayo yung problems nila. Haha. Ang dami kasi ngayon na kapag hindi na masaya or hindi na gaya ng dati, umaalis na lang. Pero hindi naman laging ganun yung love. Minsan, love is also learning how to understand someone, even when their way of dealing with things is different from yours. To my kulay, mabasa mo man ‘to o hindi, dito lang ako palagi. Hindi na para pilitin ka, hindi na para habulin ka. Dito lang ako in the sense na kahit anong mangyari, hindi mababago love ko sayo. I hope you know na you were loved, understood, and accepted by someone who genuinely tried to understand you. I love you always in all ways! 🥺✨
2026-09-18 22:00:43
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aevywkgsux :
Ngayon pa talaga to dumaan kung kailan umiiyak ako dahil sa avoidant
2026-09-12 18:32:48
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sky :
super sakit magmahal ng taong avoidant. hindi dahil masama silang tao, pero dahil minsan, kahit mahal ka nila, hindi nila kayang ibigay yung reassurance, consistency, at presence na kailangan mo. minsan napapaisip ako, bakit kailangan pa nila tayong mahalin kung sa huli, magiging avoidant din naman sila? bakit kailangan pa nilang pumasok sa isang relationship kung alam nilang may moments na iiwas sila, lalayo, o ipaparamdam sa partner nila na kailangan nilang tiisin yung pagiging avoidant nila? masakit yung marinig na, “tiisin mo yung pagiging avoidant ko,” kasi hindi naman lahat ng tao kayang mag-adjust nang paulit-ulit. hindi porket wala tayong avoidant issues, ibig sabihin tayo na lang palagi ang dapat umintindi, maghintay, at mag-adjust. may feelings din kami. napapagod din kami. nasasaktan din kami. sana maintindihan din ng mga taong may avoidant tendencies na hindi masamang magkaroon ng struggles, pero hindi rin tama na gamitin iyon para gawing responsibility ng partner mo ang pag-intindi sa lahat. kung mahal mo talaga ang isang tao, sana hindi lang siya ang gumagawa ng paraan para maintindihan ka. dapat pareho kayong willing matutong mag-adjust, mag-communicate, at ayusin kung ano man yung nakakasakit sa relationship. no bash. hindi ko sinasabing masama ang mga avoidant. naiintindihan kong may reasons kung bakit kayo naging ganito. pero sana, bago kayo pumasok sa isang relationship, maging honest din kayo sa sarili ninyo kung kaya ba ninyong magmahal nang hindi paulit-ulit na nasasaktan yung taong nagmamahal sa inyo. masarap magmahal, pero masakit din kapag ginagawa mo na yung best mo para mahalin, intindihin, at hintayin yung isang tao, pero pakiramdam mo ikaw lang ang lumalaban para sa relationship. love should be something you work on together—not something one person has to endlessly endure.
2026-10-08 16:00:49
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Mr. Justine :
“MAHAL KADAW PERO NAGAGAWA YUNG MGA BAGAY NA AYAW MO , AT KAYA KANG IWASAN NA PARA BANG HINDI INAALAM YUNG NARARAMDAMAN MO”
2026-09-13 01:46:39
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Ayaaang ☻ :
Yuuuup! It’s meeee. May collection pa ako nyan dito. 🥹🫣
2026-09-12 23:50:58
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DalanDANnce :
To all people saying, pass sa avoidant, hanap ka ng iba mahirap yan, ako na nasasabi sayo pre mahirap yan. The fact is lahat tayo ay Tao lahat tayo marunong mag mahal iba iba lang tayo magmahal at magtiwala sa ibang tao. We are all trying here to love an avoidant not because we love them kase yun nararamdaman natin, mahal natin sila kase tao sila hindi porket ganon sila ay iba na agad gusto natin. Lahat tayo gusto ng pagmamahal at sana matututo tayo magkaroon ng Empathy at lastly lawakan natin ang isipan natin. Learn to understand while not losing yourself even though its hard kahit hindi na reciprocate yung feelings o ano man. Yes majority tama sila na Loving an avoidant is not for the weak but what I see is may growth sa sarili natin how? Love is not about rushing or emotions only, it can be self respect, boundaries, trust, consistency, time, understanding, forgive.
2026-09-13 04:17:33
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A :
it is not for the WEAK, especially if ur an anxiously attached to that avoidant person i repeat it is not for the WEAK
2026-09-13 01:16:44
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cophoebeans :
To my avoidant baby, I won’t beg this time. Not because I stopped caring, but because I’m starting to understand that love shouldn’t feel like I have to keep proving I’m worth staying for. I see you. Even in your silence. I notice how you disappear when things get overwhelming, how you choose distance over confrontation. And I’ve tried, I really did, to meet you where you are without losing myself in the process. But loving you quietly has been the loudest pain I’ve ever felt. I kept telling myself na “intindihin mo s’ya, gan’to lang talaga siya” while slowly, ako naman yung nauubos. I stayed patient, I stayed soft, even when I felt ignored, even when I felt like I was the only one holding on. And maybe you’ll never fully realize how much I chose you in moments where it would’ve been easier to walk away. I don’t hate you. I don’t blame you. But I’m finally accepting that I can’t be the only one fighting for something that’s supposed to be ours. If you ever come across this, I hope you understand that I didn’t leave because I stopped loving you. I stepped back because I had to start choosing myself too. And if one day you learn how to stay, I hope you remember someone once loved you this gently, this patiently, this real. But for now, I’m letting go of the version of you that only exists when it’s convenient. Still soft, just not losing myself anymore iloveyou.
2026-09-13 08:41:52
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Whoareu_? :
Alam nyu ba mas mahirap magmahal kapag avoidant ka? ang hirap bro, like subra hindi ko maintindihan sarili ko
2026-09-14 03:50:53
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Daveddd :
Avoidant sayo, clingy sa iba
2026-10-24 03:41:53
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