@thevalerieadams: A secure woman is willing to “lose” the man she’s dating over this 1 thing ⤵️ Something women with unhealed anxious dating patterns might do if she starts to notice a drop in his effort or inconsistencies in his actions or that things have stalled … Unconsciously use it as an “invitation” to try harder. She might think: “How do I GET him to be more interested again?” Or “What can I do to make him put in more effort?” A woman who has done the inner work to build secure patterns 💎 understands that: If she feels emotionally unsafe with the man she’s dating - it’s a sign that she should invest her energy and her heart ELSEWHERE. She has created safety within herself and she knows how to anchor herself into feeling confident and grounded regardless of the effort the man she’s seeing is putting in It becomes: Does he ADD to me feeling emotionally safe or TAKE AWAY from it? ✨ If it’s the latter, she is willing to let him go in favor of the man who will come in and put in the effort and consistency she deserves and is ready for something serious NOW. Ready to learn the tools and guidance to become the most secure, confident version of you in your dating life so you can attract your dream relationship? 👇🏼 This is what I guide you through inside of SECURELY CHOSEN - the secure woman curriculum to call in a healthy relationship from the inside-out 🌹❤️ Get started with Securely Chosen at the top of my page . . . #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #highvaluewoman #relationships

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