Erika Grundon
Region: US
Saturday 12 September 2026 20:26:00 GMT
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Nick :
That’s not an avoidant, it’s a narcissist
2026-09-13 01:41:28
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kara_rl :
I just got the ick for putting up with this stuff
2026-09-12 21:13:36
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TRON🎣🇺🇸💯 :
Make plans wait around all day just for them to cancel or just ghost for a few days it’s sickening
2026-09-12 22:02:30
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Niall Pyro :
this applies to friends too 😭😭😭
2026-09-12 20:37:26
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shae 🏁🖤🐆🍒 :
Looking back I’m like wtf was I doing?!
2026-09-12 23:09:13
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Katie Davis :
And they are never like this at the beginning xx
2026-09-13 08:02:22
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Julie 🦋 :
I've dealt with this in friendships too
2026-09-12 22:13:59
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Sanmiggumz :
Don’t forget the part when it’s ANYONE else they will hang out on the dime
2026-09-13 12:13:55
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CJ :
Oh I told him I’m not available and he threw a fit, I was so shocked.
2026-09-13 01:01:18
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Dee :
My ex never did anything I liked for 3yrs. We broke up and I feel free as in being my self finally - simple things like bowling, a fair, weekend getaway but he would do all that w his friends n family
2026-09-15 02:07:58
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_kopaababy_ :
This is eye opening
2026-09-14 17:06:05
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Len :
Flash backs to him calling everything I wanted to do or see "stupid," and he wouldnt spend time with me unless it was something he wanted to do.
2026-09-12 22:00:24
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PlsDontTalkToMe :
This just pissed me off
2026-09-13 16:54:16
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Joey :
its pure immaturity
2026-09-13 18:55:23
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Angela :
Avoidant is just repackaged selfishness honestly
2026-09-14 23:14:45
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Aus :
Ex Couldn’t even be bothered to celebrate my birthday with me last year :)
2026-09-12 23:11:11
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Cas 👻 :
😭 They just want to make no sense so bad
2026-09-12 23:23:33
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syreetabryan :
Avoidants are straight up evil and selfish my now ex likes marvel I tried to plan a date to watch the new superman movie when it came out he blew me off and streamed it at home alone and then said it wasn’t all that anyway, when I pulled back because I noticed when I tried to plan dates he kept making excuses when he had nothing else to do I was met with he is broke asf that’s why he doesn’t initiate the dates [Perfect score]
2026-09-27 15:13:37
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Ash :
My ex literally said “I love that you’re so responsible, you really keep everything together” and when I said that I was tired and struggling carrying everything on my own he got offended. They really tell on themselves.
2026-09-13 17:30:11
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kosotogari :
Red flag get out asap it’s simple not worth it
2026-09-12 20:33:08
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joshuastarks :
the sad part is its nota joke 😭
2026-09-13 01:43:16
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Soph :
Too true. He'd want to see me and expect me to come over last second but wouldn't want to see me enough that when I said No, he'd come to me instead. He didn't see me on my birthday because he didn't want to do what I planned to do.
2026-09-13 07:19:40
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Nanka ✨ :
she wanted princess treatment without dating 😭 sigh
2026-09-13 06:53:27
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Tequila Coco🥥🍍🔮🌙──⃝─⃝⃝⃝⃝── :
why did i tolerate this for 20 years
2026-09-13 01:16:44
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