🩵🩷🤍 KatieKat 💛🩵🩷 :
just be the one to start a conversation, boys usually never are the ones to start, if you worry about how you look, take it easy, it's so important to not stress about this to a point and I REALLY mean it, if you improve something, great, it comes with time in wich you focus on what makes you feel better while discovering new things even as simple as fashion choices, or making that one small decision to go out of your way to shower, brush your hair, and take care of other personal necessities all in one sitting after a shower, that's what I do anyways, I struggle with motivation but taking a nice shower improves my mood enough for me to do so, its guaranteed to make ty confident for the day ahead of you :3 it also eases my anxiety somehow.
but make shure it's always a healthy improvement, being hyper vigilant over something like that can ruin your self esteem, if you already are stressing much, Id like to tell you boys standards aren't all like you think they are, typically there is never really any negative emotions a bit holds when a girl interacts with them, use that information to ease your anxiety, it might give you enough courage to <3
also not every boy is the same obviously so if one is mean or something, there are other people everywhere, all different brains, emotions, standards, problems, just like you, everyone is unique, nobody needs to be perfect, that would be impossible! everyone has faults so yours aren't any different. I used to be in the same position you are in, and tbh I stopped caring so much, I focused on myself I stead of others I'm not saying I'm lucky, I used to be chopped asf, I transitioned and overtime I started to love more and more things about me, untill it completely outweighed the things I don't like about me, anyways that's my experience, but just remember this
stop acting like your life is a damn book at the last chapter, I'm not talking about being suicidal, I'm saying that there's so much more to your story. things change, so will you, how you look, your self esteem, Confidence etc. it's your ONE life, so look ahead, relax, improve, and live it to the fullest, I believe in you 🩷 ^^
2026-09-15 18:20:18