I’ve realized its usually better not to respond to someone’s experience by bringing up your own as an example even when the intention is to relate or show that you understand, it can unintentionally shift the focus away from what they’re trying to express. sometimes people just want to feel heard and understood, so paying attention to their words, asking about their perspective and letting the conversation stay centered on them is probably the best option. otherwise, it can come across as dismissive or frustrating without you even meaning it that way.
2026-09-13 00:40:05
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█▬█ █ ▀█▀𝙰𝚎𝚕𝚊 :
No genuinely idk how else to help
2026-09-12 22:21:58
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𝒜𝓀𝒶𝓈𝒽𝒶 :
To let them know they aren’t alone with what they’re dealing with.
2026-09-12 23:36:39
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Art_Is_B0ba :
it rlly helps to know how they feel! if they feel like they're alone or the only one who has gone thru their experience, it brings them comfort to know smone else has gone thru the same thing. but If someone is just venting about their issues and it's clear they want to feel validated then it's better to make them feel better without the use of personal experiences
2026-09-12 23:05:45
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ginger?! :
normally i js keep it vague to let them know they're not alone but not shift the focus
2026-09-13 01:09:26
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🗒️ stalkingyourpaige 🗒️ :
oh wait i’m lowk early
2026-09-12 22:20:15
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Autumn_M :
Yo why is ur stuff so real
2026-09-12 22:22:50
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caca :
as someone who talk about the situation, its ok but our main topic is still about me
2026-09-13 00:33:40
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Ana ⋆.˚ :
Fresh comments
2026-09-12 22:40:05
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hshs 🪳 :
realll
2026-09-12 23:17:49
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melody🪽🎧 :
No bc I genuinely need to know
2026-09-12 23:51:08
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aliyah✝️ :
first
2026-09-12 22:21:07
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𝖅ombi𝔢 𝕷ov𝔢𝖗 :
early?
2026-09-12 22:21:43
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🗒️ stalkingyourpaige 🗒️ :
relatable 😔
2026-09-12 22:20:00
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Mckenna :
First
2026-09-12 22:19:26
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. :
early
2026-09-12 22:20:02
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ིྀ✦ᥕіᥣᥣ᥆ᥕ✦ ིྀ :
fr
2026-09-12 22:29:17
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zavvv 💥🤍 :
first 😭✌️
2026-09-12 22:19:27
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camille :
I’m earlyyy
2026-09-12 22:19:51
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journey :
first!
2026-09-12 22:19:30
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D :
😭😭😭
2026-09-12 22:23:17
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