@beeing.app: Teach your relationship this. Couples who repair within 1 hour stay married. Couples who wait 3 days practice divorce. Because every silent day teaches you both how to live apart. Don't rehearse the distance. Repair fast. Even when it wasn't your turn. #Love

TOUTOU LIVES :

What bout people that need time to process and regulate?

Bee-07 :

This was my partner, every time we had a tiff, he shuts down and goes into silent treatment. I'd always initiate us fixing or talking it out. I was never chased when I got mad.

𝔐𝔯𝔰 𝔇𝔞𝔲𝔰𝔞𝔟 💍 👰🏻‍♀️ :

I was toxic and thrived on not talking to my husband. He taught me to repair things as soon as possible. My husband healed what he did not break. I love him with everything within me 🥺

🇿🇦 :

Its nice when you both put effort, but when its always one sided its draining.

Zambian Beauty Vivi❤️ :

ITS ALSO OK TO TAKE TIME TO BREATHE AND STEP AWAY FROM A SITUATION.

Kings Vicko :

we learn everyday

Mami :

repair is not easy when they dont see their wrong and refuse to see

Tee :

I always try to repair immediately. He got mad that I wanted to repair the same issues that weren’t getting resolved and told me that I was the problem for bringing them up repeatedly. Then he told me I made him physically sick from bringing up the problems. He got a bad cold and said that was from me making him “talk too much.”

Touch'n U :

Nope! I need time to process situations and my emotions because making decisions under stress is not safe

opulent chronicles :

What’s wrong with taking time to process ?

k4ty091234 :

We reconcile within minutes

Love.and.Guerra :

Yeah I hate being mad at eachother. we hug and i tell him how I took things or explain what I meant. He does the same. We talk it out. because this is my person. We need to be good with eachother.

AshleyyyyKay :

If you can watch me cry or be heartbroken for hours, let alone days, I dont want you anymore. Because id never leave someone alone to deal with those painful emotions that predominately came from me.

Nma :

There are no manuals

𑣲𝓜ᴀʀʟᴇɴᴇ :

I can’t!!! I get so mad that I don’t want him to talk to me but is because he gets so disrespectful and then 5 minutes later he acts like nothing happened, I can’t let it go.

mytik :

yes you said the truth my wife had this attitude of keeping silent for more than 3 days now we are separated. she lacks spirit of forgiveness

shaun_ncube :

What if your partner wants to decompress and understand her emotions and express them in a way that you both can move forward. Is delaying repair to properly reflect a bad thing?

Blasphemous_ho :

when we want to repair fast, they think that we're desperate😭

Shawnie_Noem :

Yup

☆Debbie☆ :

One thing I have learnt is that I will never date someone who hasn't healed himself.I also learnt that your childhood determines how you also handle issues it mirrors you today. 💔

🍀Clover 🍀 :

My husband hasn’t spoken to me in more than two months. He’s “processing”…. I’m repairing myself. I would have preferred repair- but the defensiveness got in the way. Distance was uncomfortable at first- now it’s where I feel safe

Cocoa 🤎 Sunshine ☀️ :