@benjamincamras: It’s easy to become overly focused on the outcome and feeling pressure to hit certain dating milestones at certain points. But don’t forget to date in the process! A lot of the questions you have about pacing and not wanting to rush will sort themselves out as long as you have an idea of what you want (this helps immensely with not letting someone else’s wants/desires become your own) AND stay focused on the dating part of things!

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not lia :

how do i know if it’s a slow burn or if he just isn’t that into me

2026-09-14 01:54:29

SpitfireLace :

I'm so bad at this. I go straight to wifey mode. doing my best to be intentional!

2026-09-13 02:21:22

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Joseph Michael :

They're also going through massive changes in their life and I don't know where I fully fit in their changes, but I'm here for them.

2026-09-13 01:16:29

Janet :

Thank you

2026-09-13 01:33:16

OhHeyyItsRyan :

What’s slow? 24 hours? ✨

2026-09-13 03:21:35

TooHonestButTrue :

stash is next level

2026-09-14 01:48:46

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