@kellyunfiltered19: I had some homework I needed to get done, and somehow my brain decided that was the perfect time to fixate on the fact that I’m single. I wanted to focus. I tried to focus. But all I could think about was how badly I want a relationship and how it feels like everyone around me has one. Sometimes wanting love takes up way more space in my head than I wish it did. #datinginyour30s #datingjourney #singleinyour30s #wantinglove #singlelife
If I hear “just focus on yourself” one more fucking time
2026-09-13 13:19:39
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Cranjis McBasketball :
“It’ll happen when you least expect it” I am literally never expecting it
2026-09-13 23:32:00
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Debr🅰️ :
"a relationship won't make you feel happier."
Well, let me experience it for myself first! 😩
2026-09-14 18:55:41
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Matt Kayne :
never let wanting a relationship so bad get you so desperate that you end up with the wrong person.
2026-09-13 09:05:05
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mezcladita :
“jUsT LoVe YoUrsElf”. I do love myself. I’d also like someone to share this life with
2026-09-13 23:13:53
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Gonzonator69 :
unfortunately not everyone is meant to find love or a life partner, its just life
2026-09-13 18:07:29
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Novocaine :
Here come the “you’re better off without one” comments.
2026-09-13 10:36:17
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OneLatinLady :
I never understood young women who desire their whole life's purpose to be with someone. I received an education, traveled, partied, became independent.
2026-09-13 18:31:46
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Tabitha :
Trust me you don’t single life is so much more peaceful
2026-09-13 19:17:56
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T A Y Y :
I cry everyday.
2026-09-23 02:38:39
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Abdul :
Try traveling; perhaps your love is in another city
2026-09-21 17:19:45
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lene5789 :
“yOU hAvE tO lOVe yoUrSElf fIRsT”🤪
2026-09-13 18:19:18
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meddyyym :
There is more to life than relationships
2026-09-14 23:29:03
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Mazzy :
What are you DOING to find a match? If you want a relationship, it’s not impossible but it won’t happen without taking action.
2026-09-14 16:29:52
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💗✨🌸 Brittany 🌸✨💗 :
I felt this so hard for so long and I can’t believe how many invalidating comments there are. Humans are meant to connect with each other, why is wanting that so wrong? I did finally find my person last year,but god, I hated having to listen to the ‘you don’t want one!’, ‘it’ll happen when you least expect it’ ‘work on yourself ’ crowd SO much. They don’t understand how much love you have pour into yourself to get to be a person who is a good, healthy partner for someone while single. A happy relationship is a group project and you’ve already done your part, you deserve the experience you’re dreaming of.
2026-09-14 19:53:28
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Rane :
I don’t understand people in these comments tryna shift your mindset on it. I truly hope you find the love of your life and get to experience it YOUR way without people here trying to bring you down of having one. I’m rooting for you.
2026-09-14 15:41:24
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EU :
I used to be in your position. And I would say the same thing you are saying about "focus on yourself" and that doesn't erase the strong desire to be in a relationship. You are not focusing on yourself in a way that lets you understand that you need to be complete within yourself before you date. That strong desire to be in a relationship means you are not focusing on yourself. A person should feel complete without anyone else so that strong desire you have comes from a place that you feel you need someone else to complete you.
2026-09-14 08:10:13
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Queen🐝👑🇿🇦 :
If I hear 1) Focus on yourself 2) It will happen when you least expect it 3) Or you need to get out more.....one more time....
2026-09-14 16:30:53
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Shyannelisa :
Same I don't want to spend another holiday alone... I want to do matching pajamas with someone I'm 35 and never have 😭
2026-09-14 20:37:59
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Kevin 🏴 :
i was fortunate to find an amazing lady, was together 20 yrs before she passed away. unfortunately dating these days isnt about feelings or love etc, its about materialistic things and convenience.
2026-09-14 21:32:13
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Caitie :
Same, girl🫂 And I’m so tired of the “You’re not missing out on anything” & the “you need to love yourself first” crap. Yes I’m missing out because it’s what I want! And loving myself is a completely different kinda love than we’re talking about.
2026-09-13 08:04:47
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8274937378sjjfjs :
I think about it all day everyday
2026-09-14 18:58:11
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SaRaH💋🫧 :
Being in a relationship doesn’t automatically make you happier. Please take care of yourself first.
2026-09-13 13:46:20
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Autumn :
Me too, I cry about it several times a week. You’re not alone ❤️
2026-09-13 05:27:54
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871 TI :
damn girl, chill! Live your life!
2026-09-14 18:07:43
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