sandra :
Was this the first time? It would be the last time cause when I grew up. Nobody ate nothing until everything was on the table. Mama would put everything on the table, and we would pass around the bowls. Take what we get past and then put it back where it goes to where mama had it before. I raised 2 boys, and we were on a busy cycle because back then, my mother didn't have to work cause. Daddy made enough money and she got to be home to take care of us and we did our chores and born in 55 so things were different. My boys grew up in the 70s and 80s, so I worked. They went to school. They got out of school. My husband's first one to go get them from school. But when we got up in the morning I already had always had breakfast ready for them. A snack before school. And then what we got home at night, the night before I would get in about 4 o'clock. And we already had things ready to go. In the oven, casseroles or cook something ahead of time. A day before? So they already had a hot meal. But I always fed my husband and my children before I fed myself. I made sure they ate before I ate. I just ate what was left, not because I had to. Because I love my family and I wanted my boys to be healthy. Him be healthy, and I was never a really big eater to start with. That's selfish. My son right now lives about one mile down from me. He goes down when he cooks up or he comes down. And brings me, I says, hi I I pay, I shop fine.He said, no, i'm bringing you something.If you don't need it or not, you need it for lunch tomorrow.He's constantly doing that or he goes to the store.He'll stop back by with something for me to have cause I when I go shopping too, and I see something.I know he likes or she likes I say, hey, I got something for you that's family.I can't believe someone be that.SelfishThat's that I don't blame a mama.But being upset and I hope that's the last time he does that.And I hope he learned his lesson, but he did a ding ding that she won't ever forget.Penned his cell before the kids and her parents' parents' job is to put their children first.To make sure they get fed, you get fed.You all get fed together, you're a unit, not one little island being selfish
2026-09-13 16:01:15