@christina.and.the.dane: Hi everyone 🤍 This is something we’ve kept private for a long time, but it finally feels right to share. Some time ago, we made the incredibly difficult decision to go our separate ways. We fought for our relationship because what we had was real, meaningful, and worth fighting for. Almost 3 years ago, we had actually begun considering separating when Jakob’s brother unexpectedly passed away at only 32, leaving behind 3 beautiful children. We’ve never spoken publicly about his passing because it was incredibly personal and we didn’t feel it was ours to share. At that moment, everything else stopped mattering. Family came first. We stayed by each other’s side, and Christina was there with Jakob and his family to love and help care for the babies who had just lost their dad. As we slowly learned to live with the loss, we also had to face the feelings about our relationship that existed before it. We realized we couldn’t stay together simply because grief had bonded us so tightly. The truth is, we still love each other deeply. We met at 15, grew up together and experienced the best and hardest moments of our lives side by side. We don’t think we’ll ever love anyone in quite the same way we love each other, and we only want the absolute best for one another. For now, this is what feels right. We’ve spent our entire adult lives as “Christina & Jakob,” and we need to learn who we are independently and become better versions of ourselves. Having lives in two different countries made this even harder. We couldn’t simply move a few houses apart and figure things out. Separating meant potentially being an ocean apart and redefining the home and family we built together. But we’re still family. Christina will forever be Auntie to those 3 precious babies, and we’ll always be Mom & Dad to Krølle, our pup who quickly became our little son. 🤍 We’re still best friends, too. We talk, laugh, annoy each other and spend time together whenever we can. Our relationship just looks different now. And yes, we’re grieving our couple TikToks too. 😂 We LOVED making them. They were never just content—they were us laughing together and sharing a part of our relationship we genuinely loved. We don’t look at this as 10 years that ended. They were 10 years that shaped us, gave us a family, countless memories, millions of laughs, a best friend, and a love neither of us will ever experience in quite the same way. We will always love each other and want the best for each other. For now, we’re learning how to grow on our own. 🤍 With love, Christina & Jakob

natt :

this is like pat and jen all over again, a couple i didn't expect to break up

thenewstew_ :

Damn this was not on my bingo card

Felix :

But whyyy is everybody breaking up right now 😭

Rapi D :

Sad for the ending of your relationship but quietly impressed by the depth and emotional maturity of your explanation. Sending only love and good karma for whatever the future brings you.

dideej :

Damn... This is what everyone feared

capzilla23 :

I hope y’all find y’all’s way back together 🩵

JoeCruzJuanAlberto :

Just because you’re broken up, doesn’t mean you guys don’t love each other at certain level🥺🥺🥺

jorgeomh12 :

the problem is that they think that butterflies are still going to be in their marriage after couple of years when you have to learn how to love someone when it's hard now these people think that living with someone for 10 years means that you will still have butterflies in your stomach

simon.cowellfan345 :

Why is this my first TikTok I see when I wake up 🥺🥺

Kevin Wright :

Oh damn 👀. I didn't see this coming, but this happens because it's normal. I just wishing the both of the best of luck moving forward

Hunter :

Now this is sad

tht1legalmexican :

that explains the huge delay in posts that plenty of people were speculating

Andrew :

maybe I'm the only one but it seems like she's talking about a time they ALMOST went their separate ways but stuck together and worked through it. as she said read the caption people

Alin Gazda :

I'm in shock....i dont know what happend and why you guys finish an awesome and beauty relationship....why our parents can keep a marriage so long and we :sons/doughter we dont... divorce after 1..3..5...or 10 years.....wish you both all the best😘

nobioherehm :

I thought I noticed it shifting yk

hutch3215 :

9:21am on a Sunday and I’m crying because of a couple on the internet I’ve never met

Nova_Cryptic :

I had a feeling this was coming. Breaks my heart that it did.

kuyaflipgamer :

Take care both of you... Wishing you each the best moving forward.

kyo :

leave social media behind if you truly love and care for someone you dont let that go you dont let that be who you are everyone's lost someone that doesn't mean we push the people closest to us away hope you 2 find your way back if its meant to be

simon.cowellfan345 :

I hope after you find yourself you get back together I love you together

Lifebinder :

this is an April fools post right??? right???? 🥺

pisces girl 🌷✝💟 🦋 :

😭😭😭 sounds like y'all love each other I'm praying time apart helps and y'all find your way back to each other ❤️🙏

Yuidocchi :

Honestly, this is the best way to respect what you 2 had 🙏🏻 I wish you both a great life for being respectful

mooseman2002 :

Ikbal Yohanes :

what happened.....tina