Isn’t the general rule that you’re not obligated to give a gift for a destination wedding because the amount of money you spend to be there; your presence is the present.
2026-09-13 14:21:38
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🍪🍩🍪🍩 :
why are we paying for other people's wedding 😭😭😭
2026-09-13 10:15:14
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Jenna Hill :
End of relationship. use the flights and hotel for a Holiday
2026-09-13 10:10:23
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Sara :
If you need $250 from every person, I fear your wedding is too expensive
2026-09-13 21:23:31
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Christina Campbell :
$250 for what?
2026-09-13 06:52:24
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0kate0kate0 :
this happened to my brother and his gf at the time (now wife) they were invited to a destination wedding in Fiji, paid for everything etc then got uninvited so they went on a holiday anyway.. in the exact same hotel as the wedding, the reception everything was in a public area so they were there dancing on the dance floor right next to the wedding they were uninvited to 🤭
2026-09-13 11:55:57
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Hufflepuff_Katy :
Wait what's the £250 for if it's ON TOP of the hotel, travel and gift? I'm confused.
2026-09-13 13:12:03
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Sarah_nottheoneyouknow :
Take the trip and enjoy it without going to wedding.
2026-09-13 14:13:58
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SillyGoose_ :
Just go vacation at the destination and don’t go to the wedding
2026-09-13 22:49:55
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Matt :
Go and have a holiday but don’t go to that crappy wedding that’ll drive her more crazy
2026-09-13 08:18:46
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Mr. Top B :
weddings have become shakedowns and an expose of narcissistic people posing as ur friends
2026-09-13 15:38:34
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KUHLS :
I can’t believe people are still getting married. Seriously.
2026-09-13 21:06:52
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user8790779336012 :
People who have expectations of a destination wedding are some of the most selfish I’ve ever known! 🤷♀️Unless they’re funding the entire trip, politely say no. You’ll thank me later!
2026-09-13 15:56:13
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wrestlingmom :
Just go on vacation now!! Other guests will be joining you! No one is paying that for wedding expenses when it’s a destination wedding
2026-09-13 05:18:46
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Plecostomusboy :
The best way to respond to an invite to a destination wedding is to make up a good reason that you can’t come.
2026-09-14 22:13:48
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Whitney Myers :
I didnt even have a 'destination' wedding. But most of our guests traveled from multiple states away. There was no expectation of gifts. We didnt even have a registry! Told everyone if they wanted to they could contribute to our honeymoon fund, but it wasn't expected!
2026-09-13 16:44:50
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Mackattack0703 :
I’m confused. This woman is asking her guests to pay $250 that will go towards paying for her wedding? I’ve never heard of that in my entire life
2026-09-13 22:50:43
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Leonora Rembert :
guess I would return the gift and go on a destination vacation cuz I'm not wasting my money.
2026-10-24 14:42:04
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desiree.91 :
Just go but just vacation.
2026-09-14 19:19:24
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CozyBookishCharm :
I'd pay the $250 and just not bring a gift 😂
2026-09-13 12:27:53
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Carla C :
That's ridiculous. Who asks for their guests to pay to come to a wedding??
2026-09-13 10:38:22
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b. :
what did she even want $250 for..
2026-09-13 07:16:25
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June24 :
I got invited to a destination bachelorette which I turned down, then I later got invited to the destination wedding which I also turned down as it was going to cause 20k to attend (10 if just me) and we were in the middle of finalizing buying our house, I just genuinely couldn’t afford to go. I was actually shocked to receive an invite for somewhere so expensive tbh. Anyways, I gave a heartfelt apology and explained the situation, I even sent flowers and a letter as though I was giving a speech for them to arrive home to. The bride said it was ok and that she understood but, we are 12 years out now and she hasn’t spoken to me since. I found out after that I guess she wanted me to be IN the wedding, but she never even asked me!
2026-09-13 14:05:00
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Alixjade_07 :
I’d be going and having a vacation.
2026-09-13 16:38:00
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The Fuster Cluck 🐓 :
that isnt a friend and take yourself on a really nice vacation 😎
2026-09-13 12:37:13
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