Ahby_thrifts 🛍️🛍️ :
Some of una dey think say to train child easy for this wicked Nigeria? Even the one wey I get, sometimes I dey ask myself,Who send me? 😭 Hissssss
Children are a huge responsibility. You won’t have complete peace of mind again, and honestly, you’ll never be fully yourself the way you were before. Everything changes your time, your money, your body, your sleep, your plans, even your mental health.
So before you think of bringing a child into this world, think am 10 times. Make sure you’re financially stable, not just because money dey come today or tomorrow. I mean money wey dey consistently flow and can comfortably take care of you and the child.
Make sure you can afford food, clothes, healthcare, school fees, emergencies and all the unexpected expenses wey dey come with raising a child. And most importantly, make sure your mental health can handle the pressure.
No be just to give birth. Raising a child is a lifetime responsibility. Love alone is not always enough you need patience, stability, support, time and money.
No rush to have children because of pressure from family, friends or society. Have them when you’re genuinely ready for the responsibility, not just because everybody dey born.
Parenthood is beautiful, but make nobody deceive you e hard😩❤️
2026-09-13 11:50:04