NTA. Why do people endeavor to have large weddings, when they can’t afford it? A private wedding (living within your means), is equally married couples
2026-09-13 15:40:33
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Denise Gutierrez :
The Bride 👰♂ has the right to not invite your partner. O.P. has ever right not to contribute to this fund. Her lost! NTA!
2026-09-14 03:28:18
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07734 :
Unity and I’m not part of that. So I will keep my portion
2026-09-14 15:10:38
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jadedrinkstea :
lol why are they even asking this question? are you gonna pay for a train ride you don’t intend on taking?
2026-09-13 10:55:45
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Puckett :
Nta. Choices have consequence.
2026-09-13 13:15:54
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Yaya :
I wouldn’t pay and I wouldn’t go.
2026-09-13 17:10:53
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cassandraamilie :
NTA! If I was invited to a wedding and my long time live-in partner wasn’t invited I wouldn’t of gone either or payed a dime towards the couples wedding or their honeymoon!
2026-09-13 12:04:31
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user1525828034024 :
Its your money and you should not be bullied into giving money
2026-09-13 20:45:36
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🇺🇸The Woodworking Duck🇺🇸 :
Nope. She doesn’t like maya and she’s not being honest
2026-09-13 13:25:40
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Insp_Gadget :
give them whatever your comfortable with might not be thousands,but a $10 or $100 bill. it's a cousin, so it depends on how close you are to them.
2026-09-14 12:37:47
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Dawn 🇨🇦 :
Tell family … kick rocks
2026-09-13 12:58:56
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richhisk🇪🇺🇬🇧 :
Yes, not the ahole. Use the money for a weekend getaway.
2026-09-14 05:49:14
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Fiona Scott of Scott Media :
No you are not wrong. It makes no sense if your family don’t recognise your long term partner. I wouldn’t go and wouldn’t pay a penny either. When it’s your turn, they won’t pay and you won’t invite them. Family is not just about money - it should be about fairness too
2026-09-13 16:08:51
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Autumn honey :
My money my rules
2026-09-14 10:42:55
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Kim Banks :
nope
2026-09-14 00:23:18
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ralphcanning :
So nobody can go because anyone can get divorced
2026-09-13 10:32:22
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OutOfThePot :
If it’s a small wedding why do they need a family fund anyway
2026-09-13 23:52:22
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Rochelle Johnson :
Nope NTA OP it's you're money it's you're rules No gets to dictate what you and you're girlfriend spend you're money on it's not their income they can't dictate any money aren't paying themselves
2026-09-13 11:48:41
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baeannereads :
If OP’s partner isn’t invited because it’s so “small” and “intimate” then they don’t need the money really do they? NTA
2026-09-13 17:44:36
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carrotRick :
Our rule is normally no marriage or engagement means no invite BUT you are living together which usually means common law which equals marriage. The strange thing is you still call her your GF and not spouse so it makes me think you don't think you are common law.
2026-09-13 15:38:40
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gooniesneversaydie5🇨🇦 :
I wouldn’t give money
2026-09-13 11:49:36
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TheJonesIsRed :
Eff these losers
2026-09-13 18:04:43
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Milli McMonger :
NTA. Stop participating in the fund this second. Family like yours will 100% use it against you come time to fund your wedding.
2026-09-13 20:47:53
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Moatcharlotte :
Yes I am punishing you for being H*mo phobic.
2026-09-13 16:24:37
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vashon m :
He knew exactly what he was doing he should’ve just ignore and just not showed up to the wedding
2026-09-13 14:03:24
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