@jacky_aloomah: We did try. Counselling, therapy, everything that was offered and a couple of things that weren't. Some of it helped. But it never quite fitted, and I've thought a lot about why. An appointment in nine days is not much use at eleven at night after a phone call. And sat across from somebody who's very good at their job but hasn't been in it, there's a gap. You end up explaining rather than being understood 😐 . #infertility #ivf #fertilitysupport #mensmentalhealth #aloomah
I said no to counselling after 12 miscarriages cause I wouldn’t of kept going and get my lucky no13 rainbow bit also, what can they say? They can’t relate, they can’t tell you how to cope or handle it, nothing in my life stopped I just had a second full time job researching every possible solution. And then when we tried for a second, after 5 losses…I realised I was done, I wanted to live my life. So I grieved the idea of a second. But i don’t think a therapist can completely help with fertility like it can other issues. Then support groups, have to watch cause they sometimes don’t like information that’s not backed by the nhs.
2026-09-13 23:19:24
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Victoria Rose :
@mumanurture is a fantastic charity who gets it! x
2026-09-13 17:48:24
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