@tenommmmm: #nobodytalksabout when you going thru ya own shit ya own problems and you still gotta show up for your #partner #relationships #lesbiansoftiktok
I hate arguing like I love you. Let’s just go eat and Makeup.
2026-09-13 18:14:11
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Disha :
Especially when she’s ur bestfriend too like I be wanting to vent to her about her dayum 😭
2026-09-14 06:16:46
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Tenom :
& let me clear this up for you who always have something to say…. For the ppl saying you should be able to talk to your partner I talk to my girl everyday and every night we talk about what’s going on with me we think of ways to help me get better we talk but it doesn’t matter sometimes your partner can not heal what’s inside !!!! It’s bigger than that !!! I’m in here being vulnerable in a different way than I normally am which is my hard exterior and yall making me wanna be hard again! Something’s only time and god can heal but it’s amazing to know when your flawed and FIX IT!!! Saying I need to leave my gf of 5 years bc I’m going thru a rough patch in life is insane and a lot of yall in these comments are projecting !!!
2026-09-14 16:01:22
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LOLAAA :
What helped me is not masking it. It’s ok to take time for yourself and just let her know, you need a moment bc the day was hard. That vulnerability is a game changer. You dnt even have to always talk about it either. It’s also ok to know that you can be mad and still be kind. Your emotions are valid. Life will always present challenges for the both of you, yet things will work out eventually. But you can never get that time back when you said a word or an action that rips the comfort and safety between you and your person. Also, the app Paired is life changing it helps learn your partner in so many ways. My wife and I have our little disagreements but we what we learn is, it’s the repair that makes the relationship (as long as you remain kind even when you mad).
2026-09-14 12:54:45
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Dri :
Hurt people hurt people. If you not happy you can’t make someone else happy. Please HEAL
2026-09-14 12:51:36
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Semaja Carroll :
Girl ya hair be cute and you always messing with it! I jus be wanting to pop ya hands 😂😂😂😂
2026-09-13 17:05:30
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Destiny.mua :
My gf is like this and I’m finna leave. Idc what go on in my life I don’t take it out on her but she does it to me. Very toxic and a form of abuse honestly
2026-09-17 14:37:19
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Shariah Renae :
I loveeeeeee this woman down bad. I hate arguing with her 😩
2026-09-14 12:42:28
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K.Milly :
I stopped saving face. I’m learning to be kind even when the days are beating me tf up!!!!!
2026-09-14 14:04:22
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Tiki :
You should feel safe enough to talk to your gf about it especially if you see marriage with her
2026-09-13 22:13:43
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Cara :
People are making a looooot of assumptions in here 🤨🤔
2026-09-16 16:47:58
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。°✧I’v🐦⬛ :
take a step back, go for a walk dont let things build up. especially if she dont deserve it. if your feeling down, let her know so if u blow up, she knows ahead of time and doesn't take it personal but for you because stress is part of life, your gonna have to find an outlet before you see her. join a fitness club, boxing club, something to get that anxiety and anger out.
2026-09-13 20:03:49
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Missy Elizabeth :
When my girl argues with me, I know it’s coming from a place of frustration of what she’s going through so I give her safe space to vent, Ask her what she needs from me if anything and let’s find a solution and keep it moving.🙏🥰
2026-09-15 11:54:21
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Ali :
Like pplleeaseee! Baby I don’t wanna argue, I be so miserable and sad😭…. nobody don’t talk to me till we’re good idc 🙂
2026-09-16 15:46:28
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Nasheemaaaa :
No seriously , My Girlfriend is my BFF and I feel so out of place when we argue 🥺 we both H8 arguing , it feels so GOOD when we get back cool lol 😂
2026-09-15 22:01:34
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valzgotit :
That’s good that you are able to reflect. Try couples therapy.
2026-09-13 17:49:36
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Hello :
I do my best. I’m dealing with childhood trauma and also working. At the end of the day I love her and if she ever decides to walk away, I understand.
2026-09-14 15:03:15
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Tenom :
A LOT OF YALL NEED TO READ THIS!
2026-09-14 16:02:05
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Thick&Strict🫧🍒 :
thiiisssssssssss !!!!!!!!!
2026-09-16 04:46:32
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𝒥𝑜𝒸𝑒𝓁𝓎𝓃 :
Like literally hate it let’s just make up and get food already
2026-09-14 01:03:10
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Simoneee💗 :
i need to talk to you cus i be needing to vent but the mfs i talk to don’t even be understanding fr
2026-09-15 17:04:24
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D ♛ :
u just like me
2026-09-14 09:20:39
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NeonLove :
It’s call do better don’t project and don’t be like the rest and do what humans do best and that’s to hurt the ones we love the most! Let’s change that narrative 😌
2026-09-14 13:58:13
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Slickk :
I don’t want you to show a good face for me. Ts makes it worse, tell me wtf is wrong witchu and lemme be here for you while you’re going through the shyt. If I know something is wrong then I can act accordingly and not be annoying asf trynna figure out what’s wrong. That’s what I be wanting ladies to understand
2026-09-14 23:29:15
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