No. Stop pathologizing love. Fall madly in love people. The robots are coming anyways
2026-09-14 07:33:46
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izzy :
Its identity issues, and not knowing who you are or being in touch with yourself. So you see another person and project onto them
2026-09-14 01:32:29
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tHe abStrAct pOEt :
It can grow to the point of idolatry.
2026-09-13 18:19:26
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Kyky :
Limerence is the idea of a possibility—the person you imagine you could become with someone. But I think love is something deeper: the willingness to become a better person, to heal for yourself, and to do the inner work necessary before you can truly grow alongside said person!
2026-09-13 22:39:39
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🤍 :
It’s true I used to be so obsessive when I was in romantic relationships I would literally lose myself and couldn’t separate myself from my partners and their actions because I didn’t feel like a full and complete person on my own. Once I started figuring out what I wanted in life and who I wanted to be and what I want to do it doesn’t even matter who is in my life anymore as long as I’m walking on my own path
2026-09-13 19:07:31
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livliftlove :
I need to fix this
2026-09-14 00:59:41
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e3⭐📕 :
so basically ur calling me jobless 🥰
2026-09-14 19:27:57
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Toespinsandbruisedshins (Ida) :
I struggle with this and it is very frustrating. A lot my my energy goes to limerent objects or some other external anchor, but I also just dont know how to self regulate and put my energy towards myself. I do think this tends to be a problem for people who have grown up having to regulate a parent instead of the other way around.
2026-09-13 21:33:47
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Intuitive Vibes :
What if my purpose are relationships / friendships / connections? Like I don't understand why it is not that important. What else should be my purpose??? I always cared more about connections / relationships
2026-09-13 22:41:09
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Kitty Voxx :
Ok how to make the switch..
2026-09-13 20:01:00
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Social Media :
eye opening
2026-09-13 18:57:53
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Conrad :
Basically create a life for yourself that you can enjoy that fills up your days. If you spend all your time, focusing on what makes you happy and creating a new life without that person you won’t have the time nor the energy nor the desire to continue to waste energy on them. Or think of it this way it only hurts you. If you keep thinking about someone, it only hurts you while they are going on with their life, so why would you do that to yourself?
2026-09-14 03:13:42
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VeeJu :
ha...just read a post that said exactly that...lack of purpose fustigates obssession.✨✨
2026-09-13 18:00:58
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Tiffany B :
I like to think of it as me and my car parked outside the persons drive way.. literally that’s it. It’s like I’m just sitting there parked at this persons driveway wasting my time, energy, and thoughts on them as I sit there haha. Made me feel silly so I back my ass up out of their driveway and park it in front of mine and my dreams/passions!
2026-09-13 20:32:40
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lexyemma :
BPD too
2026-09-14 19:53:52
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doyleduke :
Oof 😅
2026-09-13 18:56:14
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vanessalovato65 :
some people just like being obsessed 😂
2026-09-15 07:43:36
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AYLA :
What a beautiful download ❤️🫡👏
2026-09-15 18:11:15
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Em feat. Mister & Mimi (cats)✅ :
It is if you’re naturally intuitive, you’re not drawn to them because you want to be with them … you see deeper, past lives exist and we vaguely remember each other.
2026-09-15 04:18:52
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olivia 💋 :
So true omg
2026-09-14 18:10:08
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Sydneylhcc :
Not true, I had everything going for me, became obsessed and attached in a trauma bond and my whole life sort of stopped due to the abuse mentally, took years to find the strength to get that all back. Had been raped before and he was first person I’d cared about in like 13-14 years 🤷🏽♀️
2026-09-15 02:30:19
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Sleepy Sara :
And that’s why yoga/fitness instructing saved my life
2026-09-16 01:58:40
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melanie🐈⬛ :
Well what else am I supposed to do
2026-09-14 23:35:35
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TracyGen❌Mom🤟🏼 :
I completely agree with this it gives another angle
2026-09-15 14:34:53
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