I gave the nice boy a chance everything was good first week then the calmness was too quiet for me so I blew it up…we’re fine now but I haven’t been able to clam my nervous system for TWO DAYS. Why do I do this to myself????
2026-09-13 18:12:41
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Ann(berader) 🌻 :
Not me being Ann and being Anxious 🤣
2026-09-13 18:08:38
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Angela Matthews :
Yep that was me. I almost messed it up with this good guy. He was a healthy good guy. I am so use to the assholes. That I didn’t know what to think. I been talking to him since July. Because of my overthinking and anxiety and I am anxious with everything from my trauma in the past. I almost lost him for good. But we are going to work things out. I have to learn to chill out. Benny knows most women out there. We have to listen and take his advice.
2026-09-20 23:49:21
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Michelle sassy :
I have to be attracted to the person when I first meet them. If I’m not then I don’t go out with them again. That’s what is an issue.
2026-09-13 21:00:42
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Natalie Hames :
I blame Hollywood and Walt Disney for gaslighting us from an early age. If we don't catch our breath and feel intense butterflies we think it's not a match. Actually, the opposite is true
2026-09-14 12:38:20
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TabooMartian :
10 years ago or so I went on a date with a woman who straight up told me she was going to get on my nerves, and that I would break it off with her within 2 weeks. At the time I was like "eh it can't be that bad". Needless to say I can't say she didn't warn me. Fast forward to about a week and a half I was due to call her when I got out of work at 3pm. I called her at 3:05, and she flipped out that it wasn't 3 on the dot. Ya, I didn't stick around.
2026-09-13 23:45:39
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Sp00kyhotdawg :
Alright Benny how do we meet men 😭 I don’t fw tinder it feels like im swiping on a catalog. I don’t really like bars, im the only single friend in the group 🧍♀️
2026-09-15 20:14:17
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The Leadership Coach :
I guess thats why ive had to remain single for 15 years now
2026-09-14 19:11:52
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Deanna Pino :
We don’t like being anxious. Believe me. I’m learning to sit with the quiet before I respond or accuse. I’m learning to be in the present when he does call
2026-09-17 02:08:55
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LilMae :
I just want the fun, romantic pursuit all the time and it can’t always be that way. There’s nothing like the dopamine hit of a man chasing me 😂
2026-09-14 01:40:33
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KateDD :
Ummmm I feel attacked 😳 lol
2026-09-13 18:34:07
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Staytrippylittlehippie :
foreal thank you 🔥😊 you inspire me
2026-09-13 23:41:34
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Diamond NYC 💎 :
Factory settings😂
2026-09-15 16:06:00
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Anma737 :
If i don't have the first-date jitters it's not looking good for him
2026-09-13 22:50:33
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Lola🙃 :
😂😂😭 Why this is so true !!!!
2026-09-29 16:24:09
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Smol Raven 🖤 :
This is me 😭
2026-09-21 15:03:43
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debrapinasco :
💙😂😂💙
2026-09-13 22:23:44
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Angela Matthews :
Yep that’s me to a tee. I have alot of anxiety and I am an over thinker I have messed up chances with good guys because of my insecurities in that past..I am so use to asshole guys , that when a nice guy comes along I think is this actually for real..i have to give a good guy a shot
2026-09-15 01:21:23
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Winnie💕 :
For me, it’s if a man is so sure of me right outta the gate, something is fishy. You don’t even know me lol we need a little bit of time before you’re feeling like that idk
2026-10-06 01:32:32
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Donna J. :
Oh they’re pumping 😂
2026-09-14 02:55:57
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VAL KLIMOFF :
Chad isn't giving you chemistry, he's just keeping your fight-or-flight sponsored.
2026-09-14 07:09:59
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Aimee :
Yes!! And some think chemistry is what feels familiar. It’s why I like your videos in a toxic way. I’m drawn into being told off 🤣🤣🤣🤣 truth!!! But that’s just my default, I don’t include it in my dating anymore. I recognize it and have to shut it down. If a man is not direct with me I have to shut it down. I can now get interested and turn it off knowing it’s not love. It’s just me being interested in a fireball ass of a man every time 🤣
2026-09-13 22:24:30
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kimclub1 :
💯💯💯💯💯
2026-09-13 23:29:52
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Suha Jaber :
😂😂😂
2026-09-14 01:12:33
2
migarcia514 :
😂😂😂
2026-09-13 20:59:42
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