Providers are capitalists and live by the same zero-sum rules which means they’re transactional, therefore, they are takers (of energy and more)
2026-09-13 18:40:15
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Mouse :
Was with one for 13 years. Couldn’t be taken care of, every response to a caring question even “are you ok” was “I’m fine?” and life centred around work. Zero spontaneity. Hated his birthday. Never discussed emotions, but told me I was too emotional. The most practical man. Control was the foundation. Controlling how the dishwasher was stacked, how the house was vacuumed, how the groceries were packed etc. A strong internal commander, desperate to be seen as a good successful person by everyone else, ultimate people pleaser.
2026-09-13 21:28:26
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mimii.xcvii :
Who should we date then
2026-09-13 18:37:44
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Rossi Chandler :
you described the man that I'm dating. He's a nice guy but 0 emotional connection. Everything seems performative and robotic. Even intimacy. 0 personality when we're together. I'm the complete opposite
2026-09-14 09:26:14
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thedunnewan :
That’s such facts the acting out of qualities rather than embodying them
2026-09-13 18:57:07
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paula.abila.07 :
I am that man 😕 I understand him 😔
2026-09-14 19:47:13
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rock5targf :
hey can i ask you for advice, my long distance boyfriend of over nine months lied to me about almost everything about him, his job, his career, studies and god know what else, i found out last night and he admitted to it all, and said he felt guilt not because he lied to me but because a few months in he realised he could’ve been completely himself and i would have loved him. i blocked him.
2026-09-13 18:27:56
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Stephanie :
That’s also why he loves a free woman. She shows him how to be.
2026-09-14 00:16:53
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Jacked Jerry :
“Provider man” is an insult
2026-09-14 12:13:13
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anaideiao :
what if some women are so interesting themselves that they don’t need a man to be interesting as well
2026-09-13 20:10:38
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lala_land_91 :
Colonial project in human form. They will punish you for every part of yourself that threatens the exploitative and extractive model.
2026-09-13 21:38:32
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Kelly Ann Heath :
So how can a girl get both the provider and the “free man”. Is it even possible?
2026-09-14 14:32:11
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Jasffq :
The non providers are not better. From personal experience
2026-09-16 14:49:46
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Ajo_qe_tbertet :
thats been exactly my experience dating them
2026-09-13 18:27:09
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Say That Again 🤔? :
There is a difference between being aware of all that you are saying about men, and wanting them only for their money coz they provide nothing else, Vs not being aware and still wanting them for their money.
2026-09-16 13:14:09
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High Key Vanta :
that's why I married money and not for money. money provides alot more than man can
2026-09-13 19:26:30
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M :
NGL as an autistic woman the regular routine, financial provision and safe person improved my life like 80%
2026-09-14 18:43:53
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Stephanie :
Oh but this hits!!
2026-09-14 00:13:18
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Jay Tee :
Every single video is a hit 👏
2026-09-14 03:08:41
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Omarrr :
Thanks for giving this explanation nuance, it really becomes eye openers to men and women and how men can choose to be and with that knowledge, be free.
2026-09-13 22:40:19
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schizonolic :
wow this video is great really
2026-09-14 14:09:33
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charla🥰🌈🌞🌎🗿❤️ :
most guys are like this and have to learn to decondition if they want to
2026-09-14 19:44:10
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s0ulcrunch🕉🛕🧘🏾♀️ :
nailed it
2026-09-14 14:28:59
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Bloodravn :
I feel like it's very short-sighted to ignore the fact that we are all products of our material conditions. We don't have the luxury of just existing, this world only respects power, we didn't wake up one day eager to overwork ourselves.
2026-09-14 19:12:24
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FlexStudio :
PERSONALITY & CHARACTER!!
2026-09-14 06:44:13
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