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Yeahbutnahhhhhh. :
Bottom line is they feel like they are superior and you are inferior. They are the main character and you are a side character.
2026-09-13 20:46:29
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rairai13244 :
I swear it feels like they get some kind of a handbook.
2026-09-14 01:46:08
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Twin † :
My ex use to say I couldn’t be mad at what he saids when he’s anger because he “doesn’t mean it” yet I believe what you say when you’re angry is how you truly feel
2026-09-15 16:36:34
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Bill Evans :
This put a lot of things into words for me and was a really good way to explain what happened thank you
2026-09-15 15:42:01
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lmbolkmsv9f :
Literally blew my mind when I learned that my experiences were not really all that unique. It seemed like the things he was doing & saying were too crazy to be true, so much so that people would never believe me anyways. The more I learned, the more I realized just how alike they all really are. Its like they all some how have the exact same playbook.
2026-09-15 21:24:36
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KC_ :
Also the “deserved to be punished” is so real. The manipulation is so scary.
2026-09-14 16:21:56
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telekenieceis :
He never shared his location with me. I had to be open and vulnerable and honest at all times, but I couldn’t question him or invade his privacy. Another narcissist will never find me again.
2026-09-14 22:30:16
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Rayne :
for a lot of abusers, abusing you is not enough. what they really need to feel complete is an acceptance of the abuse from the victim. they are obsessed w altering the way you perceive their actions. they feel like they have more rights than you, but they want you to also feel like they have more rights than you.
2026-09-14 04:40:23
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Jay 🍉🌈 :
He can leave but the moment you do…
2026-09-14 06:12:31
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kenzie :
The double standards are what did it in for me in the end. They can scream, berate you, put you down for hours. But if they so much as decide you have a “tone”- oooh boy. You have to be trackable and reachable 24/7 but if you so much as ask “what bar did you and your friends end up going to?” it’s “why do you need to know? You’re always being so crazy and controlling you don’t tell me where I can and can’t go” like…what
2026-09-15 04:42:01
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Kat 🐝 :
The location on the second phone is *chefs kiss*
2026-09-14 04:42:47
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CriCri :
it all centers around control, entitlement, and superiority
2026-09-14 22:15:04
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ErebethMiniel :
It's also because those tactics (DARVO, FOG, gaslighting, etc) work. Why would they use something else when those get them exactly what they want?
2026-09-14 11:54:15
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Katherine :
Designated patient is a huge issue we don’t talk about enough.
2026-09-14 04:22:42
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Brandi_Poole :
Dear God, this was my marriage for 7 years…. Praise God, Im free! (This isn’t what God wants from marriage!)
2026-09-14 16:42:06
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user1757123321 :
I have your hair!!
2026-09-14 00:08:28
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KC_ :
If I brought up my feelings about his verbal and emotional abuse while he was angry I was doing “Darvo” bc I was a “selfish narcissist”
2026-09-14 16:20:15
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Candace Lewis :
My husband had similar issues with a few of his exes . It’s so empowering to know that .. never been happier bc we live equally and consensually
2026-09-14 02:22:22
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Sniffquisition.And.Co :
I see you’ve also met my STBEx wife 😭
2026-09-14 01:55:17
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KC_ :
Yep
2026-09-14 16:19:32
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sincerely_alia💗 :
This
2026-09-14 20:05:52
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stroller.mamii :
Yup
2026-09-15 02:01:18
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h :
*woman
2026-09-14 00:39:27
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Kosta :
my ex wife lol
2026-09-13 22:11:53
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