@mackenzieherman: 6 months in a relationship with an avoidant can feel like a dream, then a sudden wake up has you questioning if it was reality. This explanation doesn’t give them a pass. #attachmentstyle #fearfulavoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #dismissiveavoidant #breadcrumb
Why would any rational mature person put up with that?
2026-09-13 23:32:12
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Sharon_bks13 :
They were blowing up my phone for the first year and making time to come to see me, then they turned hot and cold making so many excuses up, what they were doing was seeing their ex behind my back, when I asked if there was someone else they straight lied and future faking.... now they are sitting in chaos and regret...IDC what they are going through... Unbelievable/Blocked
2026-09-16 03:35:47
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Alyssa Hildick :
2 years and randomly he said “I don’t see a future. I don’t think we’re ever going to get married because our personalities are too different and we’re not similar enough”. That same day he was still calling me babe
2026-09-14 02:04:34
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RonjaRontti :
4 years together, got 2 dogs and timeline for proposing got closer, suddenly got a call after 2 months long distancing that he doesn’t see the future, we aren’t compatible, our love languages, lifestyles and interests are too different and he just fell out of love. This happened 1 week after we got him flight tickets to come meet me. 3 weeks after the call I flew to him get some answers and he took it all back and said that he can see we actually are compatible and he can see the future, but he ”still doesn’t love me anymore cause if I would find someone new he wouldn’t mind”. He has been jumping from relationship to relationship and doesn’t communicate when he has issues, he told me he needs to work on that and after he is done we could have another chance. Where did that love go he had?
2026-09-15 13:15:16
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JetsettingGinger :
3 years and he continues to re-write the story 2 years later just to convince himself he did the right thing by leaving
2026-09-15 01:17:37
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ashlee :
I hate to say it, but I don’t know if I am the avoidant now… My Husband ❤️and I started out as a Situationship and love grew when we ended up together. Together for 8 years, married for 6. We have been separated in living separately for two years now trying to figure out what we should do. I separated from him due to his alcoholism then he got sober, but I always had my doubts going into this relationship and then in the marriage, but I know it makes me an a hole… But I really try to give him what he needed when he could be my needs doing here… I’m proud of them for being sober, but I still can’t shake that I’m making the wrong decision if I go back with him. Does that mean I am the avoidant?
2026-09-14 02:25:47
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juan silva :
Never mind 6 months try 9 years how do I get back ?
2026-09-14 01:20:23
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user8332439140027 :
3 years
2026-09-14 00:42:21
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DJ Blanco :
6 years 2 of talking about buying a house together / moving in.., shopping and decorating apartment, emergency contact on lease,calling my parents making plans, booking a trip to see me next week... she's been gone a month now
2026-09-14 02:13:10
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Viper ✪ 🐍 :
4 years.
2026-09-14 01:05:52
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Katie Habert :
4.5 years and a marriage later…overnight they cheat and blindside me to tell me we were always just taking turns appeasing each other. The rewriting and detachment was wild and so disorienting.
2026-09-14 01:07:07
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HeyHey :
Dealing with this currently…
2026-09-14 00:42:55
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Zara❤️ :
5 years, I can’t understand what he’s doing now, he’s in a new relationship 5 months told me he’s in love with her. WHAT ARE THESE PEOPLE!
2026-09-13 23:28:08
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¹⁹⁹¹ ‘ :
Does this also apply to the fearful-avoidant?
2026-09-13 22:58:04
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Its_Kay :
After 4 months I’m like “wtf “ and all i wanted was to spend time with each other when you came back from vacation with her family
2026-09-14 00:12:27
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Sonolum the Dice Cleric :
And you'll do this shit to a friend if they dare be a close friend. Emotionally abusive and cruel.
2026-09-15 20:14:49
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¹⁹⁹¹ ‘ :
??
2026-09-13 23:12:56
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