So many rules for a person who has to fix itself. Find someone else.
2026-10-21 21:25:35
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Zara❤️ :
DONT
2026-09-13 23:07:36
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The Warded Man :
All this is apparently no problem in the honeymoon phase, then you have to follow her advice here. Problem is there’s no way to know your partner is an avoidant until it’s too late
2026-09-14 02:20:49
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captain wilson :
So to be clear. Stay well away.🫣
2026-09-13 23:10:02
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Free :
She’s spot on. Fearful avoidants that don’t try to make themselves better and work on themselves will destroy you, manipulate you, play you, love bomb you and then withhold love from you. They will try to control you. They will not show up for you. They will push you away because they are controlled by irrational fear but as they push you away they will try to breadcrumb you because they don’t want you to go anywhere but they also will dip out on you in a heartbeat. They don’t want you to hurt their heart but they will hurt your heart time and time again and then they will constantly remind you that they are the victim so they don’t have to take accountability for their poor behavior. They always want to have access to you and they don’t want you do go anywhere, but when you finally have had enough and you finally do walk away from them, they will be harsh to you but it’s them protecting because they can’t control you anymore. Be strong and know your worth. They will destroy your heart and then act like they are the victim and act like they never did anything wrong. Many of them(not all of them) but many of them are highly manipulative and dishonest. Just don’t waist your time in trying to date them. It’s not worth it.
2026-09-14 00:05:55
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razorsharpwit :
my fearful avoidant was great, until she wasn't
2026-09-18 17:42:29
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44 :
whats the point
2026-09-14 08:02:02
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min :
right. be a robot
2026-09-14 02:50:08
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Jennifer :
Don’t date them at all!!!
2026-09-14 01:08:40
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BlackIsTheSoul :
How to date an avoidant: DON’T. Seriously, run away faster than you can.
2026-09-14 07:24:29
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Moonshine✨ :
Don't. Still have trauma from them. Had to take 2 antidepressants and 1 anti-psychotic because of him💀
2026-09-22 19:30:16
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Veronica Reid :
how to date an avoidant: DON’T🩷
2026-09-14 02:00:32
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Blessed 🙌 :
how to date an avoidant.... Dont.....
2026-09-14 01:21:17
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Olive :
They thrive on mutual ✨neglect✨
2026-09-14 05:31:50
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tcx_x :
I always told told him he’s an avoidant and I sent him videos too ✌️
2026-09-14 03:15:46
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Luca ♏️🇷🇴🇺🇸 :
DONT even bother wasting your time.
2026-09-14 03:15:47
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user063389 :
I basically ignore him and he runs to me all the time. It’s so F*cking backwards.
2026-09-14 02:55:22
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ᜐᜎᜒᜋ᜔ :
Yeah right. If you don't want to settle and only want someone to date without committing, avoidants are the people we need.
2026-09-14 03:36:57
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✨♡✞𝓐𝓷𝓷𝓸𝓲𝓷𝓽𝓮𝓭 ✞♡✨ :
Just leave them alone. Let them find someone else.
2026-09-14 00:29:07
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1simplecyn :
dont know where they live. lol
2026-09-14 03:30:31
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EmmyNel :
Just don't.
2026-09-14 01:34:13
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