@kevinpakman: I hope this resonates to some people that even tho someone close to you disappoints, it’s not the end of the world and you can still thrive
if your parent doesn’t respect the family you’re building, they don’t respect you. hard pill to swallow
2026-09-14 17:30:55
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I BEG YOUR PARDON :
Maybe this is why I’m not married because I don’t think I could cut off my parents for anyone
2026-09-14 01:24:50
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s.k.ittles :
yes, parents need to learn boundaries
2026-09-14 01:22:49
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Celedon2000 :
I don’t understand zero contact with parents. One day she will die and you will regret this. You can’t get back lost time.
2026-09-14 05:57:55
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o_gs771 :
Ill cut anyone off idgaf. You fuck me over and youre no longer in my life, simple
2026-09-14 03:35:45
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Daniel :
Old people can be stubborn asf
2026-09-14 02:59:50
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brian :
Having the strength to do that is insane. Your wife is amazing for sticking through that too , you deserve the best
2026-09-14 00:25:46
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Nion :
You did the right thing.
2026-09-15 23:12:52
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Angel :
As a Nigerian immigrant I totally understand. There’s this unspoken feeling and level of entitlement I do not think is healthy for parents to put on their children. Sometimes distance is needed. They will eventually come to an understanding and hopefully a new respect and boundary!
2026-09-14 03:29:45
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wintersunphoenix :
honestly I am proud of you. too many people let their parents control their own made new family. at the end of the day the person who is going to be there with you at the end is your life partner
2026-09-14 01:52:51
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Ismael :
You made the right call, same shit happened to me.
2026-09-14 02:41:47
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DEE3 :
When you have kids, she’ll come around. She wants the best for you and unfortunately at this point thinks she still knows best. But again, once grandkids come in the picture, she’ll put all that away..for the most part. I’ve seen it happen multiple times so hoping that’ll be the same for you and your situation.
2026-09-14 01:53:32
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Red rider :
Perhaps you can try to mend things
2026-09-15 20:41:30
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BullRunmama :
Your wife is your family that is and should be your priority
2026-09-14 06:06:56
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bl3333333hh :
You did the right thing. Your wife is really lucky to have someone who understands what needed to be done. Doesn’t make it hurt any less for you I’m sure
2026-09-14 02:58:47
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Yea :
When you get married your spouse and the family you’re creating has to come first. You made the right choice!
2026-09-14 13:45:13
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Thomas Pierce :
None of us will know what actually went on but I hope some time in the future you guys will be able make up, much love🙏
2026-09-14 00:19:11
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Steph.ecom✝️ :
One day things will all come together my man stay strong
2026-09-14 00:21:55
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V :
Sometimes family is just the fkd up weirdos you got stuck with. But a spouse is the person you choose to build a life with. I’ve cut off a couple family members for coming at me and my husband sideways. We are happy and successful and in love, while they are still gossiping about us in their toxic group chats. It’s a tough choice you have to make, but so worth it.
2026-09-14 02:29:31
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Jazmin Elizabeth Cornett :
I totally relate. Going into my 7th year of no contact. Coming from a Mexican background, I understand the lack of boundaries all too well. I was the golden child until I realized the relationship no longer served me or my family, especially when the disrespect reached my husband, who did nothing wrong.
It sucks, but once you see it, you can’t unsee it. We chose to break the generational curse, and that’s such a privilege for our future generations. ❤️🩹❤️🩹
2026-09-14 17:22:59
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JXLA :
me and my siblings had to do the same with ours. Once you feel they’re trying to “control” your decisions you need to set a fine line. Especially once you hit adulthood
2026-09-14 04:47:33
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spilledmilk. :
You’re the kind of man i like. Knowing how to set boundaries with your family and sticking by your wife is important. Respect to you 🤌🏾
2026-09-14 01:58:02
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