@burned_notbroken: The mistake I made for too long was believing that more effort from me would improve our marriage. That wanting deeper connection and intimacy and growth meant I was a “good” and wise wife. Unfortunately that effort was imbalanced - he was unable to meet me in that and it left me burned out to the point of filing for divorce. It wasn’t until I detached that we actually were able to get on the same page with our desire to grow and repair our marriage. But the pursuer’s efforts will often leave the relationship in a place of tension and frustration on both ends. #burnedoutpursuer #relationshipburnout #almostdivorced #breakuptiktok #shouldistayorshouldigo

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aarmslave
aarmslave :
I do feel like she was trying to hard for me to change to fast. I still feel i failed her but i needed time to adjust and address my issues. time to understand my mistakes
2026-09-14 21:45:53
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notonmynelly
Nella :
He left after 5 years. Claiming he didn’t want a relationship and that he’s emotionally immature 🤷🏻‍♀️
2026-09-14 11:56:46
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sami8448imas
sambam :
and then that turns you into someone you dont even like anymore
2026-09-15 04:46:51
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shannonbrown551
Shannon Brown :
That's great and all but I've been there too many times.. same results. You stop chasing and stand still. After a few days or weeks, they get curious and come back. Everything is fine until you need something, or ask them for more... back to the same old cycle
2026-09-19 04:40:12
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kovalsky151
Kovalsky :
My partner ended things with me, we haven’t spoke since. He said I can’t respect that he needs to leave and I told him I was just hurt but I will do so and haven’t messaged him again. He’s now reposting things about me being the only girl for him and him loving me and wanting to only work on this relationship because starting over with someone else isn’t an option but still no message. I’ll continue respecting his space because I love him and won’t force him to stay where he’s unhappy but I feel like he’s truly done with me. He still loves me but I don’t know if its enough
2026-09-14 12:43:48
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taamoafrica
LadyNV :
Thank you for this. Best advice I have heard.
2026-09-14 05:48:55
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theceo1986
3 hatin’ a$$ Ho3s :
I’m in this boat currently …I went thru all those emotions and when I left, I was able to realize this!
2026-09-14 02:45:18
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elenagandolla
🌸 Elen Gand 🌸 :
Nothing works
2026-09-13 23:59:12
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gstyler79
gstyler79 :
So is there any advice for someone who had a 12 year relationship; who's admitted their mistakes, has made real changes is willing to learn and do things the right way and wants their partner back?
2026-09-14 19:58:58
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humbleone0432
humbleone :
Yep I left finally
2026-09-14 06:06:16
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whothateth
_ETH_ :
But why did you come back? because it just sounds like yall were not compatible
2026-09-14 20:01:05
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unpatocantabaalegremente
PATO :
😁😁😁
2026-09-19 13:56:33
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