Dopamine Skeleton
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Monday 14 September 2026 00:25:59 GMT
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beckytalks :
If she makes the list then I say she gets the title of the head of the household.
2026-09-15 21:52:06
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Walter Paige :
We don’t notice or care about the same things. Things that bother me don’t bother her and vice versa.
2026-09-16 01:55:36
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mizutgrfn :
She’s single
2026-09-14 10:15:18
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Chopstyx :
when does the wife notice the lawn needs mowing and does that without asking?
2026-09-14 20:30:35
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Kirbaflurb :
mental load isn't a thing
2026-09-15 19:08:32
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Billy River :
Mental load - 🙄. Yes, it’s so stressful having to think about vacuuming every Tuesday evening.
2026-09-14 11:06:48
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Ryan Brown :
When we ask for a list, all we are saying is, "I love you and want to help, so please tell me the things that are important to you, and I will do them."
2026-09-14 09:14:41
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OwlieMama :
I totally agree 😂 Sometimes I’d rather my husband not notice what I notice—because if he fixes it his way, I may end up secretly redoing it while smiling, “Thank you!” 😅
2026-09-16 00:53:30
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✝️ Kelly ☕️🩵🙏🏻 :
the Honey Do list has existed in marriages since the beginning of time and has always worked.
2026-09-14 14:13:52
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Anthony LoConte :
she's saying that if you see something that needs to be done do it. do you walk by a mess on the floor? do you not see the dishes? you could do a load of laundry. They're just asking for you to notice what needs to be done. you don't have to assign chores. it's pretty simple guys. and if you both work you definitely should be doing shit around the house.
2026-09-14 14:43:33
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Ryan Lee :
if you can't voice your wants and needs to your partner, a relationship is not for you
2026-09-14 14:17:27
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Vix - LadyLucky :
I get what she’s saying. But I get what James is saying. It’s all communication at the end of the day, every relationship has nuance and different circumstances. My husband does a lot due to my ill health but we have an app that keeps track of what needs doing, and that way on days I’m doing well I can pick something up. That works well for us.
2026-09-14 18:38:00
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renee.aerial.pharmd :
If you are doing 50% of the housework, you should know what needs to be done without constantly being given a list. The rich lawyer forgets MOST households have 2 working adults
2026-09-14 13:23:32
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Coach_moa :
GIVE JAMES BELLS OR HIS FLOWERS 💐! THE GENTLEMEN IS SIMPLY THE BEST, AND BETTER THAN THE REST👏👏👏 🫡!
2026-09-16 00:36:43
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gingersap82 :
From a psychological perspective, her entire dialogue is one giant attribution error. It's essentially "because I see the world one way, everyone else must experience it the exact same way with no deviation". That's absolutely not at all how it works and there's literally no research that supports her opinion
2026-09-14 21:59:11
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kat :
The lists work with husbands- took me the 1st few yrs of my marriage . BTW- it’s shocking how many little things guys take care off that you don’t realize until they die!
2026-09-14 16:59:36
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bagel boy 3.0🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸 :
Your priories are not the same as his priorities. Hope that helps.
2026-09-14 12:56:09
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HeartFreedom :
Men dont see the same things women do, that's why the sexes are complementary. The things stressing most women out, DO NOT stress men out the same, and it makes them crazy. If you demand participation, then you need to be willing to communicate what is making you crazy so we can address it. 👍🏼 . Mental load is a victim mindset.
2026-09-15 03:45:05
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Hebdarious :
What she is saying, without saying it, is that the man should do everything just the way she wants it done, when she wants it done.
2026-09-14 17:50:43
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DJ Murphy :
That's not what she is saying. She is saying that if I ask for help I should not then have to describ the help I need. For example my husband will ask what the goal is today and I'll say "My goal is to get the house clean." and he says "I can help with that." I dont then need to make a list of things for him to do around the house. He see's the laundry on the floor, the baby spit up on the sheet so the sheets need washed. He see's the bathroom needs to be cleaned, he see's the Trash needs taken out. I have my responsibilities, he has his. But I dont have to make him a list of things in order for him to help me with mine and he doesnt have to make me a list in order to help him with with his.
2026-09-14 04:05:12
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Lisa slno :
then the wife should equally do the lawn ,fix the car, shovel the sidewalk and driveway etc if that is the mentally
2026-09-14 20:25:50
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snorlax50000🇨🇦 :
What she’s saying is that if you can figure out your daily job you can figure out basic things at home.
2026-09-14 18:21:51
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theretiredteacher :
sorry dude but you don't get it. my spouse sees everything that needs to be done and will take care of it. if the laundry needs to be moved-done, if dishes aren't done-done, if kids need anything (rides, help w/ homework, fed, etc)- done, if lawn needs mowing-done, toilet is dirty-done. men CAN see and BE a partner IF they choose to be. married 34 years btw.
2026-09-14 04:40:27
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isthisforreal :
NO wife happy life.
2026-09-14 16:34:35
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justinmazzella :
I disagree with the lady because, me and my wife have 2 different standards of clean. For example if there are 2 dishes in the sink, dishes dont need to be done, but my wife sees 2 dishes in the sink and thinks the dishes need to be done. Now if you want me to do them thats fine but ask me. Because im not going to pick up on the fact that they need to be done, cause to me they dont need to be done.
2026-09-14 16:00:21
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