I had to grieve. Instead of finding the old spark I created a new one.
2026-09-14 01:35:10
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Marlene Davids🌹 :
I lost it when I started dating a man
2026-09-16 06:46:04
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ljanaymiller :
As a mental health nurse, I want you to know that losing your spark doesn’t mean it’s gone forever. Sometimes life gets heavy, and we go into survival mode just trying to make it through the day. Give yourself permission to not be okay right now. Please reach out, let people support you, and take things one day at a time. That light inside you may feel dim right now, but it’s still there. ❤️
2026-09-14 02:27:21
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Mela_waslike :
So we're all going through it?
2026-09-15 11:09:32
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Sunshine 🌞 :
I lost it and talking to ChatGPT helped me get back
2026-09-19 22:25:19
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Chelsea :
Can’t even cry anymore. So numb.
2026-09-15 02:07:30
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Busty_G :
I didn’t realize how much i loved myself until i lost myself
2026-09-15 13:12:59
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D.💌 :
Same. I think I have to get off these apps because it’s constantly overstimulating my mind.
2026-09-14 02:51:20
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_geefty :
I literally bawled my eyes out recently cause of this. I use to find joy in little things, going to cafes, eating out, music, shopping excites me so much but I tell you this, I have stuffs packed in my house and I am not excited about them and I am so sad about it. I am asking God to help me find my way back 🧎🏿♀️
2026-09-19 19:20:55
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Khosie :
I told my therapist that I feel like that and I just want to get back to my old self and she said “why not spend time trying to get to know the new new you? We spend so much time trying to get our old-selves back and not getting to know who we are right now even though we know there’s a reason we’re not that person anymore”. I’ve been working on getting to know myself now and I don’t feel as sad anymore.
2026-09-19 14:32:26
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MrsNanamiKento :
I miss the old me, she was so fun and carefree, she was everything to me. I wonder if I'll ever get her back
2026-09-15 07:53:48
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Yvette Addo :
And constantly mad and irritated at all times hm.
2026-09-14 22:22:40
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rosey_she :
I lost my spark real bad that everything just bores me. I used to get good grades, used to love make up, going out and trying new things, shopping. I threw away all my make up. I buy everything online. Someone said you don’t get your spark back, you get a new one so I’m trying to get a new spark.
2026-09-18 18:42:12
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🐞 :
Reading so many comments that simply explain alllll I’ve been feeling. 🥺
2026-09-19 16:59:47
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Forever Mimmy 💕 :
I use to be fun and funny. Now I’m just irritable.
2026-09-19 19:36:51
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Lunathi :
Losing your spark has to be the worst thing. I never been so disconnected from myself like right now
2026-09-15 11:13:43
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kaylee :
I feel like im just stressed out all the time, financially, emotionally. My body feels like it’s just in survival mode everyday
2026-09-15 02:18:59
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kezia ☀️ :
What she said 🫶🏽
2026-09-19 12:35:39
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Faustine06 :
Bruhh I thought I was the only one feeling this way😞
2026-09-14 02:20:47
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:
a possibility is that a version of you has recently died, meaning you have outgrown that certain version of yourself and are currently in the process of just existing before being reborn into the new one. it’s okay, simply pour into yourself and allow yourself to enjoy this period of just being. life will naturally evole as it does and you will find your spark again. give yourself grace, rest, love, understanding. use this time period to heal and rest. you got this lovely 🤍
2026-09-18 19:33:02
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Ashajlae' :
Fast, try a day without your phone, enjoy the little things practice being present (lowkey talking to myself too)
2026-09-14 01:23:14
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Shamay Griffiths :
literally me every single day and it’s really sad
2026-09-14 22:47:37
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b’chella :
Sometimes it’s not about finding yourself, it’s about creating yourself. Rebirth yourself. Wishing you a safe return back to yourself Queen. ⭐️
2026-09-15 23:25:35
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Arista Mosley :
I feel the same way. My mom just passed away so I’m giving myself grace. It will return eventually 🥹
2026-09-14 03:15:47
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grania.theunfilteredmum :
It’s not just me then? 😔
2026-09-16 12:05:13
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