as a gay man women who read yaoi are fine but the moment u make everything abt it (example seeing 2 men together in a video and insta commenting stuff abt bl, consume nsfw bl or as ive seen many times before fetishes gay people by saying they wanna watch irl intimate activities between men or wish their bfs was gay) makes them weird specially cuz i believe women and men are the same in the fact they shouldnt be consuming nsfw media of two people of the same gender oposite to the reader for satisfaction
2026-09-14 09:58:37
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i_love_cats <3 :
Kill me if you can is recommended y'all. please read it.
2026-09-14 13:36:14
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Stella♡ :
the only redflag bl I read was low tide in twilight that got a good ending but I don't support what happened in it
2026-09-14 03:26:35
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⟡✩⟡ ᴹⁱˡᵏᵃ ⟡✩⟡ :
I just love romance idc if it’s straight bl or gl as long as it’s cute
2026-09-14 10:05:17
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mimi :
i find it sad that people talk way more about that side of the bl comunity than that side of straight media (hunting adiline is one of the best examples cause a lot of people(mainly women) romantisise it )
2026-09-14 19:05:57
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𐔌ׅ͡ 𓈒𓏲 ׁ 𓈒 ݁ letti! ᣟ :
Wait you’re so peak
2026-09-14 11:05:19
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୧bunnygirl୧ :
HOT take: I like all black,red,yellow,green flags. I’ll read wtv of it has a good art style and has a decent plot (I’ll get flamed ik)
2026-09-14 20:51:08
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𓏲⌗..⊰ʙᴜᴍʙʟᴇʙᴇᴇ⊱⊹ᯓ﹏🚗|🐝ೄྀ :
Someone recommend me some PEAK bls with no weird ahh shi
2026-09-14 17:57:54
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🎧Nyx♣️ :
my favorite BL is sketch its a green forest
2026-09-14 09:01:20
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𝜗𝜚˖ mal • 𐙚 :
So if I watch a bl anime I’m suddenly fetishising it? Just because I’m a lesbian it’s weird? it makes no sense
2026-09-14 10:50:57
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⟢ Qυιɳɳ .ᐟ :
As someone who talked abt the fetishization of bl a lot. We mostly refer to the women that only read bl for the smut or hate gl. Women that normally enjoy bl can do whatever they want as long as they don’t overly obsess over it! Some ppl just generalize it and call everyone a fetishizer which is weird
2026-09-14 14:04:01
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𝜗𝜚⋆₊˚𝓐𝓶𝔂⋆♱ :
I’m bi and I like yaoi and Yuri but I hate when others want everything be yaoi or Yuri I mean yeah i sometimes ship same gender characters too even if they are not in a relationship like that but not every ship💔
2026-09-14 12:00:34
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Jelly(Jin Lings uncle) :
Got called fetishizing for liking mxtx, erha and qianqiu btw💀
2026-09-14 17:22:18
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window :
also sometimes it's just about wanting to have representation! like I read/watch GL because I want to see people who are also lesbian like me, and most of the time if it turns toxic/weird I'll stop cuz I don't like that
2026-09-14 06:10:31
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luke✮🇦🇱🇬🇷 :
romance is romance guys if someone enjoys it no matter if its abt 2 boys or 2 girls (and don't make it their whole personality or make it weird) then it's ok🥹🥹
2026-09-14 14:17:06
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♥︎Pokiko✧˖° :
One of my fav bl is merry marbling it’s so friggin cute
2026-09-14 05:06:24
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Nya.Rants :
I’m a woman who read’s BL and Yaoi and if I find that it’s toxic I drop it immediately (I don’t read GL and Yuri but that’s cause i haven’t found any I like)(also I’m queer myself so 😅)
2026-09-14 08:09:54
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⛓⚜WilliamAfton⚜⛓ :
i read everything. green flag, toxic, bdsm. i barely find good yuri or straight mangas. mostly i dont like the artstyle yuri has sometimes. with straight i barely have good ones to read. i have my fav bl and my fav is ks its actually a peak story. for me idk if i am straight and yes i love bl. i have my fav toxic and my fav green flags. still i agree with u!
2026-09-14 04:58:54
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Yaelokor :
i feel like if someone INSTANTLY assumes it's a f3tish then the call is likely coming from inside the house? why do they assume anything gay is instantly a f3tish instead of trying to understand why some may enjoy reading it, that's why I think they are actually the ones who over s3xualize it.
2026-09-14 05:38:42
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Monty 🐺 COMMS OPEN :
yeah people do be calling literally everything a fetish rn and it’s exhausting. with this topic it just heavily depends on how the person views queer ships and relationships in general tho. like if you only consume nsfw yaoi and dont care for romantic ir platonic parts of the relationship nor care at all abt real queer people it starts to become VERY weird
2026-09-14 07:33:57
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Yziix :
Here is my opinion on that: The problem is the girls who objectify gay men by treating them only as tools for smut, while simultaneously perpetuating a heteronormative pattern that causes harm within the gay community or even in patriarchy in general. For instance: the hyper focus on top/bottom dynamics, omegaverse, and highly heteronormative/overly sexualized tropes. What is worse is that all of that is centered on the female gaze and since they will never live the gay man's experience in real life, they internalize these behaviors.
2026-09-14 14:19:29
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