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ornamentalcattle :
My therapist says “hope is just delayed disappointment”.
2026-09-14 17:08:51
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jillralphio :
It’s fascinating how people treat the label of “boyfriend/girlfriend” like the equivalent commitment as “husband/wife.” I think we have overthought this whole dating thing to such a degree we’re not enjoying it anymore.
2026-09-14 14:22:24
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Liz C. :
But she won’t because she’s afraid that he will leave completely
2026-09-14 14:45:23
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lelliemallie :
what’s the actual difference between seeing each other every weekend, being exclusive and in love and being “committed”? like what’s actually changing in the final step?
2026-09-14 08:28:15
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C4p19 :
getting to 9 months is crazy
2026-09-14 16:01:12
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Stacey 💚 :
I followed the “how to end a situationship” step by step and just ended everything last week. It was the exact step by step that I needed to figure out it was time to end it.
2026-09-14 15:44:06
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user5157619094727 :
Also , she said “we aren’t seeing other people” lol no She is not seeing other people and assuming he is doing the same
2026-09-14 23:47:33
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SJ :
Exclusivity is earned and requested. A mantra I lived by
2026-09-14 09:37:16
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Nessa11 :
hes about to find the love of his life and leave her..[Crying]
2026-09-15 23:12:39
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Sarah D :
I used to be a pickmeesha, have not been in a while. She is scared of disrupting the peace because she’s scared he will leave. Basically his needs go before her.
2026-09-14 10:52:43
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lai lai ⭐️ :
Whyyy settle there’s men out there that would sit at your feet just to be exclusive with you if you have to ask that’s already a terrible sign lol
2026-09-15 11:33:58
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molldoll 🫶🏼 :
Sydney. I get it now. I finally get it. I’ve been following you for a while and I’ll admit I was always a bit confused by the “no therapy talk” idea. I always equated those conversations with closeness, deepening the relationship, etc. and think in past relationships, I had a lot of these conversations. I’ve started dating somebody new after a long period of time alone/single, and I’m experiencing what it’s like from the other side. We keep having these deep therapy conversations. Every tiny thing is turning into this big talk and conflict and conversation, and we’ve only been seeing each other for 6 weeks. And it’s exhausting. It’s so draining. I keep sitting here thinking: this is supposed to be fun. And it’s not. It feels like work. It’s a shame that it took this for me to realize it, but I just want to say, I get it now. Thank you for posting about this stuff!!! You’re doing gods work for real haha
2026-09-15 01:51:08
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Theea Eliza :
I’ve been intuitively doing this for a while (not sleeping with someone who is not sure abt me/not committed to me) and I’m mostly single 🤣but it works in keeping the jerks away. the only reason some people have the audacity to ask for highest possible benefits with the lowest possible emotional investment from them (situationships) is precisely because there is a market for that: those who accept this. when all long term thinking ppl will collectively stop engaging w situationships, we’ll notice an increase in the quality of dating. I die on this hill
2026-09-16 09:10:33
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CiCi McMahan :
preach 💯 💕
2026-09-15 13:10:40
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Genie 💕 :
9 months is crazy like what is happening here
2026-09-14 17:12:15
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GarbageAcct :
I’d ghost his azz. But that’s just me.
2026-09-14 11:34:21
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Auntie Tanya’s House :
Not enough women do the choosing and wait to be chosen. Even if you want to engage in this, there needs to be a cutoff date for a fling and 9 months is 6 months too long.
2026-09-14 15:33:36
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Liv :
he's been with her the best part of a years, he's 'in love', but he's not ready to be in a relationship and needs to get to know her more? girlllll just no
2026-09-14 11:07:25
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HeartlessWretch :
your content lowers my cortisol, thank you..
2026-09-14 12:39:58
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tangyhormones :
we need more self accountability like this.
2026-09-14 13:48:42
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Ellen Burklund :
9 months? Absolutely not
2026-09-14 19:23:16
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Ashley Depalma :
This is something I had to learn. Because before I’d be so upset like why is he treating me this way and why isn’t this going anywhere? I’m such a good woman- karma will get him- gods got me- whatever I told myself. No ladies. Stop allowing it!!! He gets no karma if you allow it!!! Also letting someone treat u that way is just enabling him. Men seek out women like that so they never change. If no women allowed it they’d have to change or be alone!!!
2026-09-14 19:09:44
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