You can't stick around for potential. He's either what you want or not but He's already shown you what kind of person he is.
2026-09-14 13:14:08
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Tony <3 / He/Him :
28, established career, doctor, leave him
2026-09-14 14:32:21
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APPLE :
His ex cheated cause he is emotionally absent, he will do the same to you. Cut ties now, he won't change
2026-09-14 15:20:10
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🧚🏽♀️🧚🏽♀️🧚🏽♀️ :
I worked as an Operations Coordinator, please do not date a doctor unless you are one !
2026-09-14 12:35:29
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Bambi_Trimom :
He isn’t a good man for you hun, time to move on… love and light
2026-09-14 12:35:49
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Ivianne :
I would try to find out a bit more about his divorce—is it really true? And what is the reason for it? If it is true, is the situation similar to this one? The fact that he hasn't visited your home is also strange; there is always time for the people who matter to you. Be careful—it looks like this man is leading a double life. He has plenty of opportunity to do so, since you live an hour and a half apart; it’s not as if you can just drop by around the corner. It sounds very negative, but I think there is more going on than you realize.
2026-09-14 14:26:32
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olori :
Doctors priority are their patients
2026-09-14 15:29:18
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Rebecca Sullivan369 :
Too little too late. If you get back with him it'll revert back to how it was before. Trust your gut
2026-09-14 14:24:04
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iam_missalexa :
I don’t think you should walk away just yet, try again and this time communicate more, give each other grace but tell him how you want him to show up for you, he sounds like a good man honestly
2026-09-15 02:25:29
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La chica negra :
After one year of no forward movement, I don’t think a do over will make much of a difference. Don’t make permanent plans with someone who doesn’t show you that you are a priority for them.
2026-09-14 15:58:54
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Christine Crespo :
Her saying that he genuinely cares for her meanwhile op is describing him not genuinely caring for her or even making space for her. He doesn’t have time for her and he doesn’t want to make time for her. I guarantee he’ll make more of an effort for someone he wants to make it for. Unfortunately right now he doesn’t care about having a relationship.
2026-09-16 01:03:31
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Anne K :
he's shown u that ur not a priority 🤔
2026-09-14 13:53:38
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Aphiwumusa :
He’s only doing those things now so that he can keep you,he’ll revert to making no efforts if you take him back🤞
2026-09-14 14:31:43
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jp__bryan :
Several notice points:
#1 He's a Doctor he's going to be busy every time.
#2 He has his kids to think about.
#3 He went through a messy divorce and now he's rebuilding himself back up.
#4 OP lives 1 and a half hours away from the doctor.
That relationship is doomed from the start
2026-09-15 10:01:23
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Haj :
Love is being there emotionally
2026-09-15 16:13:28
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LALIPOP :
Emotionally unavailable.. most likely avoidant personality.. it just gets worse.. run for your dear life
2026-09-15 06:51:54
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Maya :
Too little too late! You had me, you fumbled it, you lost me and NOW you want to be there?? Nope, Bye!!
2026-09-14 13:17:04
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Sangweni :
He is busy with a demanding career, has 2 daughters he has prioritized and he has to rebuild his life after a divorce. He's wife cheated on him and that may have made him more held back even though he may want to be with someone. Possibly a mother to his girls . Maybe see both sides of the relationship.
2026-09-15 01:57:22
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user8530284855344 :
He's an avoidant. probably that's why his ex cheated
2026-09-15 06:06:26
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