Grieving the illusion that you thought someone cared about you when you realize they don’t at all is the most disorienting, painful feeling & it never really goes away.
2026-09-14 14:51:16
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lia p :
And you feel stupid for trusting
2026-09-14 14:56:13
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Crea8ivethinker2 :
I was married for 12 years who led a completely double life. It destroyed my world. Took years to heal.
2026-09-14 20:06:00
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Shinzui :
What makes my situation feel so much worse is that not only did she betray me but she’s been chatting with the guy she cheated on me with since we split. Now she tells me that she doesnt want to be my friend or work on us or flirt with me anymore because she likes him. The irony is so fuckin painful because she didnt tell him to leave her alone but now i have to leave her alone because she likes him? 7 fucking years and after everything i never gave up on her, never judged her, never turned my back on her, consistently showed up for her and when her mom told her she wouldnt help her i was there in her corner, when her dad told her TO HER FACE that she was a manipulative piece of shit, I WAS THERE. When she hit rock bottom and no one else noticed I DID and i didnt everything i could to show her i was there for her. I worked so she didnt have to, i to her she could stay home because she didnt like working and if she wanted to work she could, i supported EVERY decision she made, i took care of her and our kids, i helped with cleaning, i cooked for her, i literally made my entire fucking life about impressing her and trying to be the best i could. 7 years of my life gone in the blink of an eye.
2026-09-14 14:57:37
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Elizabeth :
You are inside my head
2026-09-14 15:39:31
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AndrewA :
I never thought she would be capable of what she did. This changed me on a deep level and probably for the rest of my life.
2026-09-15 22:52:28
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Janean P :
Betrayal is only possible with trust. Needed this today
2026-09-14 19:27:41
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GoGO :
So many layers!!!😳
2026-09-14 20:04:05
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Jenna :
After trusting the same people over and over and not learning until now
2026-09-14 18:48:19
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Brewed Up :
They went low, i had to go below earth 😭
2026-09-14 21:15:42
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Thetravelhippie 🌈 ♥️ ☀️ ✈️ 🌎 :
There’s only one answer, it took me a long time to understand that even my own actions have consequences, and giving them access is your own betrayal at that point. So you have to shut it down, no contact, block them. You are always spot on, removing access is the only answer.
2026-09-15 10:22:47
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Biyaya :
😭😭😭😭 still grieving the life I could’ve had years later
2026-09-15 03:45:27
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infidelity_recovery_workbook :
Exactly, statistically if a person cheates once, they do it again. Very risky to trust such a person.
2026-09-14 20:41:28
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Quentin Munnings :
I agree
2026-09-14 21:32:08
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Scrispy :
They steal from you the chance for a peaceful parting because if you give them one more second of your time or even one more word, after realizing they cheated, is a total waste. Walk away
2026-09-14 21:56:42
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Miserable Woman :
Can relate
2026-09-14 13:09:00
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Moe Kushner :
Someone told me yesterday: people are loyal to people they respect… does that mean they didn’t respect you? Read that again 👉❤️❤️❤️curious to hear everyone’s thoughts …
2026-09-15 18:55:06
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Ladygee230 :
9 years together and he told me he loved me everyday, until he ran out on me. Divorced in 4 months. My best friend is shit
2026-09-15 04:24:45
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Shelly Armstrong :
💯
2026-09-14 14:52:13
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Farmer :
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
2026-09-14 15:05:55
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