He shouldn’t have been an Assistant Pastor either.
2026-09-14 17:35:03
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jehovahgordon82 :
Why didn’t you just get married
2026-09-14 22:15:27
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chadwest91 :
Solution - get married.
2026-09-14 20:07:18
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jlynngreeen :
My question is why did he go to a man and not to God with this question??? Ion
2026-09-15 00:09:03
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Jeanna 📚 :
He needs to make his sin known and decline the position, he is not qualified to lead
2026-09-14 17:44:09
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angelabrinkley525 :
Imagine being in a committed relationship for years but thinking its a sin 🙄😳
2026-09-14 14:55:41
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Kvf :
You lied, step down.
2026-09-14 15:43:57
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Josh_aka_Rambo :
For all the people that try to act righteous, Jesus will use this individual as a perfect example to show his glory, even Jesus asked the question, does a healthy man look for a doctor? Or would someone who is sick search for a doctor, I’m not sure if that’s what the quote was but it’s best to be in the church where everyone is messed up and broken because that’s where Jesus would be at, I’d say if it’s his calling from Christ himself and not the people then continue, the apostle Paul wasn’t expected to be an apostle, he was a Pharisee who took a lot of people in prison because they believed in Jesus, but guess what? Jesus still chose him.
2026-09-15 15:56:20
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Inlet Lady :
He’s not above reproach. He needs to step down and never be a pastor again. He’s disqualified
2026-09-14 19:01:27
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asmithy :
Confess and be free
2026-09-14 18:27:41
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Jose Adrian :
Bro confess don’t confess , as a Christian member I’ll just be there for you, and pray for you you have the right to live with your girlfriend if you want too doesn’t stop from going to church, in fact take your girlfriend to church
2026-09-15 15:55:36
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Lynn :
If this situation has been several years, how did he keep it private? Most Church bodies would figure out, something is amiss….
2026-09-15 12:55:57
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Vrouwengeneeskunde :
Depriving love and sexuality in a relationship for spiritual leaders deprives also the inner contact with God. It has nothing to do with wrong, the rules are wrong
2026-09-15 15:50:31
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Mabel Jean Francois :
The truth will set you free
2026-09-15 12:32:55
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Randall :
I don't know what lessons they teach specifically, but living with somebody of the opposite sex, even a romantic partner, is not listed as a sin anywhere in the Bible.
2026-09-14 15:08:24
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Jerry :
I’m disappointed in this talk. This man should feel no obligation to discuss his personal life with the church.
2026-09-14 18:11:46
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Elsa | 🕊️✝️❤️ :
Yeah nooo. Don’t take that position. Too many people in the church are being hurt by pastors that can’t lead.
2026-09-15 01:34:36
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BamaDad2 :
So, he’s a pastor but he and his partner apparently are not on the same page with religion. That’s a huge problem.
2026-09-15 02:21:37
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Jurassic Park Snack :
he should step down. if you're not going to live the values of the church, you shouldn't be leading the church.
2026-09-14 22:49:29
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Emily :
Why with the women for so long and not get married to begin with?
2026-09-14 18:05:56
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Jbarxx :
How as a pastor do you keep this from your church for so long? Not talking about the morality piece of it but the community piece as a leader. How do you logistically keep this from them unless you are really not living without community.
2026-09-14 16:36:21
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_KennethChrist :
“I appreciate the opportunity, but I have a girlfriend and I don’t feel right stepping into this role unmarried.” Be open and confess. That’s the first step in leading a life of integrity.
2026-09-14 19:56:32
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mcdaddy400 :
Why would you go to a secular counselor to get spiritual advice?
2026-09-14 17:34:19
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Cody Garrett575 :
I feel like every church is full of hypocrites. you can believe without going to church and listen to people that are saying do one thing while they are doing something different. idk a single person in this world that follows the Bible exactly. im more on the idea of be a good person and treat others as you would want to be treated. have integrity and work hard and you will be ok
2026-09-14 16:44:31
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Kjostad :
Church has very poor leadership if they 1.didn’t know about the relationship. 2. Would think this guy is ready. 3. Haven’t had honest questions before this. This church should shut down
2026-09-14 22:55:26
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