@teaguzzles: I’m chill like that #friendships #relationships #boundaries #standards

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sammipa
Sammipa :
I propose another caveat: Not if your partner is an abuser. A former friend revealed she told her wife beating boyfriend my business. Like, I don't consider that man your partner, that's your captor, don't tell him my business.
2026-09-14 14:18:56
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sagacosplaystv
☆ Saga ✪ :
no if I tell you something I told YOU not your boyfriend. Don't normalize this
2026-09-14 16:39:47
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theokayjasmine
Okay Jasmine :
i am very much a “you should hear this too” kind of person with the boyfriends of my friends WHEN I LIKE THEM
2026-09-14 17:53:31
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sav.roslyn
Sav Ivey :
honestly at this point my friends ask if my husband is around to make sure he also has all the details
2026-09-20 15:43:04
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a.james.h
AJH🏳️‍⚧️ :
I get annoyed that my friend doesn't tell his wife anything, I know that I have to tell her basic stuff so that she's in the loop (I want her in the loop)
2026-09-14 13:50:51
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l.ollie.pop
🍭 (taylor's version) :
in general people need to say "don't tell anyone" or "don't tell xyz" bc i have a beloved group of friends with whom i converse in a stream of consciousness type way so if i haven't explicitly been told not to say something i won't even think about it, whereas if i've been told it gets filed away in a special folder in my brain
2026-09-19 18:47:59
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notthatinterestingtho
whynot :
Personally if i tell a friend something, i feel it is healthy that they are able to lift the thoughts they might not feel comfortable enough to tell me (yet) or know how to formulate their feelings about to someone other than me they trust. Of course dont go and blab about it to any new guy they just met, but i support the idea they should have that safe space to vent or share for a new perspective, and possibly also be able to help/support the situation with me better
2026-09-14 15:16:20
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mnopjewelry
MNOP Jewelry :
I assume everyone understand I will tell my hubby EVERYTHING. We have been happily married 19 years and.started dating at 15.
2026-09-19 20:58:48
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chaotic_fae_
Fae :
Honestly, my husband and I have a "no secrets" between us, even though as a whole he really doesn't give two fucks about anything going on with my friends. I don't hear something with the sole intention of "I have to tell my husband" but I'll tell him if I think of it later. If a friend asked me to not tell my husband, I wouldn't as long as it won't hurt him. And honestly, I don't think my friends need to tell me everything thay goes on in their lives. I keep things from them but not my husband, and I'd expect them to do the same.
2026-09-20 14:35:12
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redrider47
Red :
100% agree. I do feel like that comes from seeing healthy, happy relationships modeled though, so I understand why people who haven't experienced that might find that confusing. but then, I also trust my friends to have discretion and know what stories are not "share with partner" material. 🤷🏻‍♀️
2026-09-19 19:11:04
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gizurrr
Giz :
the one mistake i made in an abusive relationship i was in was never telling anyone about the situation i was in and bottling it in. i'm never going to make that mistake anymore. if you're friends or a partner with me, you automatically consent to me talking about you. and i expect you to talk about me too. that way we're both accountable and protected
2026-09-20 03:59:10
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katmak1130
Kat :
Honestly for me if you tell your partner idgaf but I would prefer their partner act clueless about it yk what I mean? Like don’t bring up my business but idc if they talk about it privately together
2026-09-14 17:01:54
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corailyne
Corallyne :
My late husband knew EVERYTHING. Just like I knew everything that he and his friends did. I don't apologize for that.
2026-09-14 16:22:53
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tzl_jaz
🌷 :
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2026-09-15 03:11:48
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cassi_lynn
Cassi :
Everyone in my life knows I’m always telling my husband AND sister. It’s just a given lol
2026-09-14 15:35:46
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dr._.vy
Miss world :
Honestly i 100% agree im not that embarrassed about most things
2026-09-14 13:41:54
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uliveinasociety
pilot :
it freaks me out when I share something really personal with a friend and then their partner knows. ppl can do this if they want but I stop sharing my personal life with them completely when I see it happen
2026-09-14 17:02:56
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alexwood200
Alex Not Earle :
I can’t help that I tell my husband. My mouth thinks he’s an extension of my brain
2026-09-14 13:46:19
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lemonzest046
lemonzest :
Also you’re allowed to have boundaries with friends just like in romantic relationships. If you don’t want your friend telling their partner things then make that known… and if they don’t wanna respect that, they aren’t the friend for you. Or at least not someone you can fully trust with certain things!
2026-09-14 18:18:56
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ryleymacdonald7
ry :
this is very reasonable. i tell my partner everything but i don’t tell my friends everything 🤷‍♀️that’s what makes him my partner and not my friend
2026-09-14 22:40:07
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galaxxiess
Galaxxiess :
closest I have to a long term partner is my bestie of over 10 years. she knows EVERYTHING I do. but also... she lives 4 hours away and does not even remotely know these people
2026-09-14 13:42:24
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pusikatt99
Stine :
I am a FIRM believer that the « no secrets between us» means ya’lls secrets… someone else’s secret about themselves does not count as you hiding something from your partner, it is not your secrets to share 😅 so I ask if it’s okay to tell him, and I will say spesifically if their partner is not included in knowing my business. 👀 this is why communication is so imporant with friends too, everyone who shares with you deserves to know if you’re this kind of person BEFORE they share something.
2026-09-14 18:56:45
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undercookedchild_
Fried_Fish :
I assume everything that comes out of my mouth is shared with at least one other person who I don't know. I don't have secrets with other people if I can avoid it. it's either public knowledge or no one but me knows.
2026-09-14 15:15:05
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martinashow06
Martina Show :
There are things that cannot be shared with everybody. The relationship i have with my friend is not the relationship I have with her bf. Why would the bf know about my past traumas and how it messed me up now? Why would he care or why would my friend want to tell him? It's honestly incomprehensible to me
2026-09-14 21:01:01
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joanna.able.24601
Joanna :) ✨ :
I don’t know, maybe it’s a difference in how I was raised, but if I tell somebody not to share something, I expect them not to share something. I don’t care who it is, if I find out that you told somebody something that I asked you not to share with anybody or you could tell from context clues that I wouldn’t have wanted you to tell another person, we’re not friends. :(
2026-09-14 17:09:13
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