Unfortunately I didn’t realize how disregulated my nervous system was until I had children. My daughters have opened my eyes, mind, and heart to so much. They’re 8 now and I know that I haven’t always showed up as the best version of me and have demonstrated behaviors I’m not proud of, but I know better now and am doing the work so that of course, I can be better for it, but more so for them to be better for it. For my friends who aren’t parents yet but are planning to have kids-that is literally the piece of advice I give them…do the deep inner work!
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Elivin25 :
That’s why I’m working sooo hard to manage my anxiety and deal with it healthy and talk to them about how to deal with anxiety and when I screw up I apologize and talk to them about it
2026-09-14 21:22:19
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ohthatshanshan :
Yep, that’s why I am heavy on communication and processing! I learn and grow with her!
2026-09-14 21:04:41
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Hypeman Grace :
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Alyssa :
Yup, this is what I tell everyone, learn to regulate your emotions bc your kid won’t know unless you do. My kid teaches his classmates how to regulate theirs when they’re upset bc they fckn lose it at school. He even tells the teachers, “let them be alone for a minute, they’ll come to you when they’re calm.” My kids 1st grade teacher was so shocked on how he would help calm them down and advocate for them. It’s something I’m super proud of.
2026-09-14 21:05:40
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nena.pickles 🎀 :
I 100% believe this too
2026-09-14 19:32:26
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Bailey Bunny :
I wish I could broadcast this to every parent in the world.
2026-09-14 21:18:01
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Nourish with Elisa :
Thank you for this!!
2026-09-14 19:24:33
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