Every single day I think “and imagine if I had kids”
2026-09-14 19:31:09
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K? 🇨🇦 🇵🇱 :
I agree with this take. Also having kids is incredibly selfish.
2026-09-14 18:51:07
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thedanielle_diaries :
My response is always “have you??” lol
2026-09-14 19:55:49
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user128765399 :
what is everyone’s obsession with “starting a family”
2026-09-15 00:46:46
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Odyssey 🤍 :
Like do they see todays world? Do you see what I seeeeeeeeee?
2026-09-14 19:53:46
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Zoe :
thought about it so much that my husband got a vasectomy
2026-09-14 20:31:08
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lizthrash :
I don't understand when that became appropriate. What about infertile people?
2026-09-14 20:02:28
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RaeRae :
My current child ! My only kind of kids !
2026-09-14 20:14:59
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skye 击🐾 :
the whole thing of parents constantly harassing child free people is just pure jealous in my opinion, they're just mad they dont have the life a child free person does if that makes sense, child free people are constantly on their minds !
2026-09-14 19:24:05
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Steffi Paige :
At least once a week, I am thanking God that I don’t have children
2026-09-14 20:32:56
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Cami Barbagelata :
I thought about having kids
raising a teenager
giving birth/postpartum
no thank you 😬
2026-09-14 22:09:02
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Dana :
Thought about it so much that I got my tubes removed. 🙃
2026-09-15 03:01:00
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Kristen🌹Rose(; :
I don't know why people always have to take it to the next level in the comments like it's probably okay to get on here and leave a comment saying yeah I agree with you but it is unnecessary to say how selfish it is to have kids or how wrong it is it's not that it's wrong or selfish it's what's best for you doesn't matter what anybody else thinks or does if you want kids awesome if you don't want kids awesome. there are benefits to having kids and there are benefits to not having kids that's why people have such a hard time making a decision on whether they want them or not because both have good things about them and both have bad things. if it was an easy decision everybody would make the same decision.
2026-09-15 03:04:42
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Edweirdo :
I was on vacation and all I could think is "thank goodness i don't have kids"
2026-09-15 03:16:42
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Jessica Angus :
👏👏👏👏👏x 1 million
2026-09-15 03:13:25
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bburgoon_lacedup❌❌ :
People who don’t have kids, have thought more about having kids and/or the repercussions of…… more than people who have kids 😍
2026-09-15 03:07:22
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JodiMacDougall :
I’ve thought about how much I don’t want them 😁
2026-09-14 18:30:54
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Krisss :
All the people who tell me to never have kids are women with kids. All the people to tell me to have kids are men. It’s interesting.
2026-09-14 19:20:48
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Banana Bread :
My sister had a baby earlier this year and was genuinely shocked at how much thought I put into bring childfree; I told her I made a pros and cons list, researched health complications, long term financial projections for cost of time off for FMLA and overall cost of raising a child, what the division of labor would look like, and how custody would work if my husband and I got a divorce. She said she didn't put nearly that much thought into having a baby, she and her partner startre trying to conceive just because "they really wanted a family" but didn't do any long term planning for it
2026-09-14 22:31:17
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RogKuz :
What's so interesting is that people who choose/chose to have kids view those without kids as "selfish", when infact most of the reasons for people having kids are often quite selfish
2026-09-14 20:16:35
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caminestrone :
I absolutely hate when people ask me if my partner also doesn’t want kids. Like of course I wouldn’t be with someone who wants kids, we would be incompatible!
2026-09-14 19:34:36
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Alanna Dueck :
Thought about it so much, and I know that no human child could ever bring me as much joy and fulfillment as these two girls ❤️
2026-09-14 20:08:44
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🖤Traci🖤 :
yeah. I thought about how much I don't want kids
2026-09-14 18:48:09
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