Erika Grundon
Region: US
Monday 14 September 2026 17:48:19 GMT
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Erik :
Everyone else gets the attention except me. But my reaction is the problem.
2026-09-14 19:50:38
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Dacey Williams :
Alwaysss way too busy for their partner but somehow find the time for family and friends
2026-09-14 19:55:12
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brogandy🏴 :
This was hurtful to watch. The worst is finding out things about their daily life by watching and listening to them have conversations with other people around you.
2026-09-14 22:05:42
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Author Alexis K :
“You’re being so controlling! All I want is peace and you can’t give me one day!” And peace is literally you not bringing up any of the terrible things they do to you or your feelings
2026-09-15 16:00:39
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Authors Reaper :
I hate that I’ve lived this and had these exact conversations
2026-09-23 16:48:24
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Lookaround :
They become masters at twisting and defending their selfishness.
2026-09-15 06:48:41
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mayaasaura :
why they do that????
2026-09-14 17:59:03
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Sawyer!! <3 :
it makes me feel like I’m so hard to be around
2026-09-15 19:53:05
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𝑴𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒚 𝑺𝒐𝒂𝒓𝒆𝒔 ☀︎︎ ♌︎ :
The fact they choose to do something with others isn’t even the problem…… atp it’s the “you’re saying I can’t see my friends?” To trick you into feeling clingy and ashamed FOR NOTICING THE PATTERN. Gaslighting at its peak right here!!!!
2026-09-14 20:19:33
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S :
"are you trying to stop me from hanging out with my friends?" God!!!!!
2026-09-23 00:56:09
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Koda :
Your facial expressions are so spot on it, I felt genuine hatred starting to bubble 😭
2026-09-23 05:55:37
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₊⋆☾𝔯𝔢𝔞𝔰𝔲𝔫𝔰𝔥𝔦𝔫𝔢𖤓⋆⁺ :
All of a sudden they know how to book an Airbnb, find flights, save money, make an itinerary. Bonkers
2026-09-15 21:06:31
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Shelly B :
💯 he can take a week+ off to go hunting but can’t set aside a weekend for us. “To busy working” ya to pay for the hunting trip.
2026-09-23 15:50:47
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Jadi🦋 :
They do the love their friends
2026-09-23 19:14:57
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janiyah :
Just start doing like them. Do things without them then it’s “how come you didn’t ask me?”🤣 have to be an avoidant to an avoidant for them to act right but it’s honestly not worth it
2026-09-23 17:44:07
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April Williams :
They are exhausting. It’s so weird.
2026-09-14 21:01:30
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Lettyedwards :
Worst relationship of my life! Never again. These people are emotional abusers.
2026-09-15 07:11:31
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Jairo :
аnԝеn rеіd dіdn’t tеll mе tο rеlах. thе аnхıеtу ԛuıꮓ nаmеd thе раttеrn і ĸерt ᴄаllіng mү реrѕօnаlіtү
2026-09-20 19:36:20
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mdmcintyre :
ditch them... you will never ever be equal, never... you will feel confused, angry. betrayed, hurt, useless... get rid of them, all they do is hurt you. move on as fast as you can
2026-09-15 11:21:19
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Andrea 🌙 :
They thrive on surface level relationships something that doesn’t require anything from them because they don’t have anything to give
2026-09-16 12:50:44
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alexandria :
Can play games w them for hours on the daily and never gets tired but apparently can’t text/call for 5 minutes
2026-09-15 12:52:34
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Lenore :
Me wanting to go to a concert for my bday, was told he didn't like the band, then went with his friend instead
2026-09-14 19:51:23
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Isabelle 🪲⛓️🔮 :
This isn’t avoidant, this is just mean.
2026-09-18 13:50:11
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Sea :
My avoidant partner treats my birthday like it doesn’t exist. No greetings, no gift, nothing. But when it comes to her friends’ birthday, she plans to get them gifts and where to celebrate weeks earlier.
2026-09-15 02:57:21
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Sav🌺 :
but it’s always that “i’m just jealous of the friends”. like yeah they get more attention and effort than I have in almost 3 years lmao like what….
2026-09-14 21:52:45
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