@stellaabiodun_: Helping someone should never become a license to disrespect them. Some of you will help people and then use that help as an excuse to constantly look down on them, belittle them, or treat them like they owe you their dignity. You cannot feed someone and still try to choke them in the name of feeding them. Help people, but don’t use your help as a weapon.

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olaitans03
♠️Soln03🌟 :
You’re making a point, yeah, but human beings can be so ungrateful sometimes. 😏 You help people, sacrifice for them, and go out of your way to see them succeed, yet some turn around and push you to do things you were never supposed to do. Some even behave as if your kindness is their entitlement. 💔
2026-09-15 15:28:24
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cyber39glt
Austin Aba :
That's why I'm very selective of who help me now...
2026-09-14 19:08:34
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ritaworld03
Rita world95 :
Thank you ma'am
2026-09-14 19:27:39
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hummaerah__8
Thatgurl.A.🎭 :
It's Screaming someone's name,but it's all Good
2026-09-14 19:28:35
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cindyifeoma3
Cindy Ifeoma Felix :
Even to send someone I once help on an errand dey hard sometimes so you don’t think am doing it because I have done something for you. I would rather allow you do things by yourself for me or I do it myself. And I have also being judged ungrateful because of this even after proving myself over and over again! I had to call it a quit! And boom! Am an ingrate! I laugh in Swahili. Thank God man is not God! God that sees the heart is all that matters!
2026-09-15 13:58:11
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rtwvendorinajah01
RTW BY LEWA :
Naso one werey give me husband she wan kill me untop ham 😂😂😂
2026-09-15 15:25:52
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sugarpontyskitchen0
Sugarpontys kitchen :
Then they gaslight you
2026-09-15 09:43:14
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classic.baby322
Melody :
I'm the first student today
2026-09-14 19:09:29
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sashasig505
sasha :
As in 😂😂😂 dey wil start acting like u owe dem ur life
2026-09-15 06:41:22
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deblessedluxuryfabric
De blessed luxury fabric :
this what is happening to me now omo some people will help you and still what to control you 🥺🤦🏽
2026-09-14 19:23:23
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say_hey_to_tizzy
Tw💕 :
Someone will claim to help you willingly still be feeling entitled 🤦🏻‍♀️
2026-09-14 20:04:15
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amicable8273
Amicable Thrift Store Awka :
This is the exact reason I refused to marry a referred husband. So many people referred me to so many people but I refused. so that if I finally make it in my husband's house they will not start feeling like Merlin
2026-09-15 06:16:11
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biglucy24
Lucy🤗💞 :
You are making a point yea ,but humans beings are so ungrateful 😏 atimes people you help to push you to do what you aren’t supposed to do……
2026-09-15 07:19:35
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sassy_amah
ᥫ᭡ Ēnhuì恩惠 :
have you experienced entitled people? Na you Dey help but they act like they own your income too. Respect is reciprocal and all I wish is for them to be better so they can help themselves and others but what I won’t tolerate is not trying to do something for yourself too but keeps draining someone knowing fully well they are struggling too.
2026-09-14 21:40:31
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assumptarh
The brand DMYS✂️🪡🥰 :
Thank you big sister ❤️
2026-09-15 10:49:32
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wuradunni0
Wuradunni Creations✂️ :
Hmm l love you ma 🥰🥰🥰
2026-09-14 19:14:37
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realtalkwithcomfort
Realtalkwithcomfort :
I’m not correcting you because I’m helping you. I’m correcting you because what you did was wrong. Helping you doesn’t mean I should pretend something is right when I know it isn’t. If I care about you, sometimes I have to tell you the truth, even when the truth isn’t comfortable.
2026-09-14 20:38:26
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light_of_the_worl1
light_of_the_world :
we all love her, right ?
2026-09-14 20:01:12
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mania0516
ᴀᴋᴏʀᴇᴅᴇ✨ :
That’s why I don’t like people helping me fr
2026-09-15 01:28:17
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obodoeze001
OBODOEZE :
abeg help me send this video to my mom's sisters
2026-09-14 20:45:29
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glorie.xx
Gloré ᥫ᭡ :
omo my mum do this alot 💔I just wish she can stop it but she is a nice person tho
2026-09-14 19:08:51
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thebiblicalfeminist
TheBiblicalFeminist🙏🔥 :
Ahhhhhhhhh🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😩😩😩God is speaking through you my sister my goodness ahhhhhhh.
2026-09-15 01:58:26
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adeola.x
Adeola࿔❀ :
Especially those that will want you to inconvenience yourself just to help them 🤧🤧
2026-09-14 23:10:08
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chibuike_divinefavour1
VYNE🍀 :
This!!! And also dont always accept help from certain
2026-09-14 19:46:57
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joe96939
J O E ☆ :
Very soon this video go fit ochacho , na when peller react , una go understand this comment
2026-09-14 23:33:28
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