Dr. Vincent Barbieri
Region: US
Monday 14 September 2026 19:12:27 GMT
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Lady Peanuts :
If I meet their needs first, then maybe I will get my needs met
2026-09-14 21:54:05
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Lea. :
Do u accept insurance??
2026-09-15 04:28:00
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GeeWee :
Me and Khloe Kardashian 😳
2026-09-15 04:52:15
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B👁️tch :
If I’m not useful in some way, what am I here for?
2026-09-14 23:05:07
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Dr. Vincent Barbieri :
This is one of those posts where some people will feel like I’m firing shots directly at them.
2026-09-14 19:23:50
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Morenita de Crystal :
This gets praised
2026-09-14 21:12:47
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linda325 :
And also if I'm focused on someone else, I don't have to sit with my own stuff.
2026-09-14 20:58:28
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Belle Femme :
100% me I thought I was just loving. till it became obvious people loved me until I got sick and then they moved o. when I couldn't do the normal amount of caretaking
2026-09-15 01:37:05
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Rockcoon :
I came to the realization that I like being used; it makes me feel important. Acknowledgement and acceptance. …just to note, I do set clear boundaries if they cross them, the consequences are on them. Dark empath (according to the internet)
2026-09-15 04:24:55
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HOUSE 🧐F CARDS! :
This is a very interesting perspective hmmm 🤔
2026-09-15 04:41:08
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Monique Ruffin/ Moon Mama :
Or they are Virgos 😂
2026-09-14 22:41:45
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Collectiverebirth :
The moment I realized this about myself and decided I didn’t want my self worth to be tied to what I gave, I lost my 2 closest friends at the time. I didn’t even have to say anything, something shifted internally and I experienced it in my real life. It was hard at first but in the end I’ve gained myself.
2026-09-14 22:24:11
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R.S.R.S. :
yes. I do/did this. i didn't realize it is from neglect as a child, or that's where it starts. this is why you can feel drained after hanging out with certain people..your body is scanning/adapting etc
2026-09-14 22:08:18
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MisMike :
The fawn response to danger
2026-09-14 22:26:08
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tismejanie :
Codependencyyyyyyyyyyy
2026-09-14 21:00:24
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bbygrlbridge :
I actually can’t stand having friends like this. I want friends who I can have fun with and laugh and share and experience life with, but when someone only knows how to show up in a time of crisis or need, the relationship can’t really be meaningful or authentic to me.
2026-09-15 04:52:33
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Tay | Booktok 📖 💫👾 :
Yeah I’m not doing that anymore. No thank youuuuuuuuu. I love ya but I’m not your personal therapist just because I have the capacity 🥰
2026-09-14 22:12:31
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tylaJ :
I’ve shown empathy to people that I simply wanted nothing more to do with 😩
2026-09-14 21:32:39
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cocoshamell.beauty :
Once you learn how to make money from those caretaking skills it’s upppppp!!!! 🙌🏾
2026-09-14 23:07:19
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maroonmaester :
‘Using people and asking to be used’. As a hyperattuned and hyperempathetic woman, this is why Giver-Taker dichotomies don’t feel just binary to me. I NEED to Give as a mechanism of getting my needs met (Take)
2026-09-14 20:45:38
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PANFI🕊️ :
Ok now how to fix it🤔😅
2026-09-14 21:57:54
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Heather :
No, that’s an incorrect assumption
2026-09-15 02:48:39
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__𝘈𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘻♎️ :
As I realized this was an unhealthy way of being, it changed me entirely. I’m now selfish with my emotions and myself and who I share my time and attention with. I wish I had this awareness long ago bc people are users if they have access.
2026-09-15 02:09:07
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The_Fly_Therapist :
High functioning codependency
2026-09-15 03:09:38
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