hope_peddler
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DeeDee Cavallo :
We should start normalizing telling men the same thing. My wife doesn't give me $€x every night, well you chose her. Oh my wife doesn't take care of me, you should've chosen better; my wife doesn't want to wake up a 5 am to make me lunch, well you should've seen the red flags. 🤦🏻♀️
2026-09-14 19:41:00
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Chiming Jade :
Like sorry I committed the cardinal sin of trusting that the man I was in a relationship with was a normal adult, not an evil lying liar who lies
2026-09-14 19:21:13
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Ruth :
Let's not forget for the abusive men, it's their job to get us to trust them so they can abuse us. They pretend to be a good guy until they have what they want and then they're not.
2026-09-14 19:18:56
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Madeleine Khan :
Then men would call us jaded and untrusting 😏
2026-09-16 14:17:06
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WitchyBit :
In a third of the instances in which women are unalived by their male partner, it’s the first time he introduces physical violence. How exactly is one supposed to background check for that?
2026-09-14 21:56:38
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Roo :
These men saying Choose Better cannot recognise an abuser even when they’re the leader of the free world 🙄
2026-09-15 19:25:38
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✨️Claemtalcto✨️ :
and women there's always the 'evil, manipulative' woman who 'seduces' men, of whom they couldnt possibly have known /s. makes me think of the women always blamed even in stories: eve, Lilith, medusa, etc
2026-09-15 12:14:16
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Michelle_Quinnlan13💙 :
The man who picked me up and put me back together after a psychologically abusive relationship eventually became emotionally abusive. The person I married and the person I divorced were wildly different. He lied the whole way through, and when it wasn’t outright lies it was letting me believe, or leading me to believe, things that weren’t true. Like how is this my fault?? I’d never encountered this type of manipulation before.
2026-09-15 23:00:41
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✨☀️✨ :
And they want to marry us as children/barely adults, so we need to have fully developed this skill from….14years old?
2026-09-15 18:36:41
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SoulSister :
well said
2026-09-16 02:25:47
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marymaryquitecontrary :
I never take responsibility for a person lying to me
2026-09-14 23:19:49
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Bing Bing Bong :
Whenever a guy complains about his crazy ex or the mother of his kids who took him to the cleaners and wouldn’t let him see the kids, just say, ‘Welp, you chose her, gotta take responsibility for YOUR choices’…
2026-09-15 09:00:49
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Nytesong :
I am a psychic medium and a survivor of narcissistic violence. You do not see it coming. Dosent natter how good you are. The gift doesn't work like that.
2026-09-16 01:48:17
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BaronessVonGinger :
And yet when men choose wrong, she was clearly the crazy one.
2026-09-15 13:03:35
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straight outta salem :
exactly. I no longer have the energy to expend so I just won't date men anymore
2026-09-15 11:22:36
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Jasmine Serene :
A lot of these abusers present as very normal, sometimes kind or even empathetic people..How are women supposed to know ahead of time!
2026-09-14 19:19:18
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Brett :
I have a rule for myself that I do not engage with any argument that expects telepathy, time, travel, or x-ray vision. I think a lot of these men expect all three when they are trying to assign blame
2026-09-14 19:41:38
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Marissa :
Same men who will say “the divorce came out of nowhere” when women have been communicating their unhappiness for years will expect us to have psychic level predictions on someone we just met 🙄
2026-09-14 23:35:22
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GiGi 🐋 :
Also is the same kind of man that get annoyed if we ask too much questions or donr trust in them right away.
2026-09-14 20:01:51
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Willow Wren :
same people will tell us to give a guy a chance, don't hold his past against him, look at his potential 🙄 they're all so lame and disappointing
2026-09-14 22:03:09
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user8265674705354 :
My ex turned abusive when our daughter was born, which coincided with worsening of conditions due to a fucking war in our country. Silly me, i did not predict how this human would react to the stress of becoming a parent and living under shelling and drone attacks 🤷♀️
2026-09-14 20:36:34
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Nova :
Nevermind they appear when you are in the most vulnerable state! Are we supposed to suppress our humanity (trust, faith, love?)
2026-09-14 19:53:26
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haynes.my.way :
I’m genuinely so interested to hear some of their thoughts on those last couple of questions you posed.
2026-09-14 20:32:32
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infoseeker :
So the bottom line is, do you want people to run your life, or do you run your own life?. because when people fall in love, they get tunnel vision. and this is the fact. i can tell my daughter, hey, this is a good guy. She doesn't like him. she likes the other guy who broke her heart.
2026-09-14 19:29:33
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Kris UGC Creator :
And also… The version of me that picked him was completely dysfunctional. I had come from an emotionally abusive upbringing, was still being emotionally abused from that upbringing, had no sense of self and no boundaries. There is no way in holy hell the healed adult version of me would’ve picked that man.
2026-09-15 16:37:06
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