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Himmel of Norway :
Well I can say. It’s possible but in the society we have it won’t. You have to form your own alternative society. Like in my nest. I extracted many young ladies from The British Royal family. So they didn’t get signed off to someone else. We have a matriarchal structure where the boys are grown to be fearless but extremely gentle. While ladies are more assertive and powerful. It just requires a lot that isn’t discussed now and they will be influenced by friends others. Sure but if the environment around them allows them to grow, explore. Not be judged and truly. Many parents fail at that last one. Even if you don’t say. This is odd or weird. They’ll know. They feel. It’ll be decent and men are raised as protectors and weapons to the ladies while ladies own the reproductive knowledge and access.
2026-09-14 22:10:19
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M :
Honestly motherhood as an influence is less than 30% on sons........biggest influence is dad and other men.
2026-09-14 21:51:58
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Je suis Fatty-Gay :
You're not going to like this but you are a part of the problem with raising boys to be good people. If you go into raising your child with the idea that there's only so much you can do bc he's a boy who will be corrupted anyway your child will probably not get the care they need. I am not under the impression that my sons will never cause harm bc that's an unrealistic expectation of any human but I do not think they ARE going to be the problem child nor that they WILL do harm beyond what is normal between people. Not bc they aren't capable, I know they are the same way I know my daughter is, but bc I taught them to be better people. I think it's very interesting that in this hypothetical you are setting up it is a man's actions that cause the harm but the blame & responsibility of repair is on a woman why is that?? Is your mother responsible for repairing the harm you cause??
2026-09-14 23:59:22
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Anon1984 :
I literally moved across the country when he was 9 to ensure his peer group would be significantly better. Will it work 🤷♀️but it’s better than him being surrounded by bigots
2026-09-15 00:28:48
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Mixed Dakota Auntie, Esq.🪶 :
I am working so hard, but they spend half their time with their wyt dad. They are 13 and 16. We talk about toxic masculinity and weaponized incompetence. The household chores do not have a gender at my house and cooking and cleaning is a life skill. It’s a struggle.
2026-09-14 23:26:01
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Nina| MdPhd Student :
I think cannot go into have any child with this mindset. You can't garuntee anything in your children they are their own people, regardless of gender. I had this crisis when I found out I was having a boy. Only thing I can do is try to surround him with other decent men and not coddle him. It probably is mostly luck and I've accepted it's out of my control how he ends up but want to be able
2026-09-14 22:18:36
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BerthaB :
There are no guarantees. That’s exactly what parenthood is.
2026-09-14 23:38:03
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Cancermoon :
I am trying so hard. I am worried.
2026-09-14 22:51:34
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Amanda | Geek Details :
I had sons, but I’m not a boy mom. My sons are in their 20s and they are better people than I am because they were raised by people willing to talk about hard topics. I was also 17 when I had my first son and was forced to marry his 17 year old dad and that impacted my parenting. It was a lot of work and they were worth it
2026-09-15 03:54:16
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ishaswords | NYC :
You can’t guarantee anything. You just do your best
2026-09-16 13:12:52
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Nina| MdPhd Student :
I just had a son so I really hope so and I'm gonna try my hardest and at the end of the day it's not in your control
2026-09-14 22:12:06
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