@themoderndreamgirl: Women carry the load of relationships. Women make them work because men won’t. Click the link in my bio for your relationship reality guide or your guide to becoming your own dream girl. Stop overcompensating in your relationships with men 🌸 #themoderndreamgirl #women #men
I’m purely convinced couple counseling is merely conditioning women to cope with the husband’s continued bs (as it most certainly will continue).
2026-09-15 13:00:52
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J :
I was not put on this earth to make a man’s life easier.
2026-09-15 13:21:27
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sinistersisterkitties :
Just broke up with the love of my life because he just wasn’t putting on equal effort for the relationship. My mom was FURIOUS because “that’s just how men are”. Like no, not my man, and he can come back when he figures it out
2026-09-15 22:26:45
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MalibuMaya :
Once you stop being the initiator you’ll see how many men just won’t put in effort.
2026-09-16 09:51:20
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In my feelings :
I just told my bf this🤣 and he said he agrees but has yet to do anything about it
2026-09-21 00:09:01
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Royal Love :
Yeah, I’m not doing that and that’s why I’m single lmao
2026-09-14 22:52:56
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Pa Kitty :
get this ASAP! 🤌
2026-09-20 22:15:56
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Cronelandia :
I never do invisible labor. Pretty much breakup with men after 3 mos. It’s actually a pretty boss move.
2026-09-15 03:58:41
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・ ⏤ bahiyya :
Broke up with the love of my life over this. He is very emotionally intelligent, romantic, and kind in general. But he'd tell me he "didn't believe in gender roles" (wanting to split bills AND dates) which I would have been ok with if I wasn't taking on a majority of the domestic duties and handling things around the house.
2026-09-17 12:31:04
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if i didnt overcompensate, my past relationships wouldn't have made it past 3 months at most. The overcompensating extended it by 3 years instead. This is why im so hesitant of getting into a long term relationship again
2026-09-15 07:27:44
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ILIRA :
I saw a photo of me in the relationship of 7 years, I looked like a zombie. Im single and never looked better before
2026-09-16 09:55:30
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Jewely312 :
I’m tired of telling men how I deserve to be treated I’m just going to be single forever
2026-09-19 12:30:19
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Kira :
I can’t live like that. Marriage is designed for men and their comfort. It’s just not worth it.
2026-09-15 00:44:13
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𝓵𝔂𝔁 :
I aim to make a man’s life harder until he makes mine easier.
2026-09-16 12:25:02
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Rachel 👻 :
I dated a guy who was simply inconsiderate. He didn’t consider my feelings, my schedule, and my wants. Every date was near his place doing what he wanted. So I sat him down & gave such a therapy speak “I feel” speech trying to explain my side & tell him I need him to be more considerate of me. A few weeks later he was back to exactly the same way. So I sat him down again and broke up with him. He was SHOCKED. Told me he wished I told him my feelings earlier. Like…. What was that talk we had literally four weeks ago?! 😂
2026-09-15 10:37:09
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Vilified :
Sounds exhausting
2026-09-20 03:23:19
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𝓗𝓸𝓵𝓵𝔂 𝓕𝓸𝓷𝓽𝓪𝓲𝓷𝓮 ꨄ︎ :
when I hit my 30s I just stopped doing it and my long-term relationship instantly dissolved because apparently I changed and became always 'angry' when I was actually feeling happier and calmer with pulling back my energy into him and putting that into myself
2026-09-15 04:39:30
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Jessica_Foxtrot :
Also, the reason why men don't change is because they don't get consequences. they know the woman will stay.
2026-09-16 21:13:53
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Aster :
You are healing me thank you lol
2026-09-14 22:32:58
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Sweetruin :
And this is why I don’t want to be a couples therapist. I’m just going to tell her to leave. 😂
2026-09-15 22:09:03
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Kudzutoreddirt 🍉 :
The hill I’ll die on: Never get married to a man.
2026-09-16 19:40:09
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Jessica_Foxtrot :
And the funny thing is, is that it's so easy for a man to lose all respect for a woman even if she does the same things he does.
2026-09-16 21:13:18
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The Pragmatist 🇺🇸 :
In my experience, past a certain point in life, it’s very hard to find a man who will prioritize your comfort. Most are simply looking for a woman to make their life easier and so they can get their needs met. The men who aren’t like this usually find their partner early in life and stay married.
2026-09-15 19:18:48
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Zephyrine Flycatcher :
I mentally go over my 2 year relationship and I get so mad. Like why did I deal with that as long as I did?
2026-09-17 08:59:34
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Amber :
There is nothing in the world that could make me take the mental load. I accepted years ago that I'm gonna be single because of this. I live where men are treated like toddlers and kings at the same time.
2026-09-16 21:31:54
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