@christopherseiter: Every Avoidant Wants To Trap You In The Layaway Paradox #anxiety #commitment #avoidant #attachmentstyle #avoidantex #dating #breakups #nocontact

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jjlitswd32
Andrew H :
Great analogy! After getting married and what i thought was an amazing first 6 months - she withdrew emotionally. She said she didnt want a divorce but didnt know if she wanted to be married. she suggested we become ”friends with bennefits” - she put me on ”layaway”. Im ashamed to say I stayed for another 4 months 😔- it was brutal and the worst emitional abuse I ever went through.
2026-09-20 16:19:48
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chiniscdmx
ChinisCDMX :
Im the phantom ex.
2026-09-18 21:50:57
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user3617578442943
Jennifer :
Abusive
2026-09-19 16:23:45
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tattooedkc
KC :
I am 1000% the phantom ex lmaooooo
2026-10-06 03:14:14
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walking_in_the_clouds12
Heather :
Exactly so never ever “stay friends”with them
2026-09-29 21:30:13
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cherry_valance69
🍒Cherry_Valance🍒 :
Great analogy of layaway. He discarded me 5 weeks ago, and I fear I am becoming the phantom ex that he may cycle back around toward soon.
2026-09-18 19:51:47
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mjoseloth
🏹☀️ María José ☀️🏹 :
The reality of this makes me so sad and breaks my heart in two 😔
2026-09-18 22:36:37
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user40069695545780
Lia :
Maybe they wanted to do that, but Everyone has the power to stop that behavior. I did as soon as it became clear what he was doing.
2026-09-19 07:14:24
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nononononnonononononno
nononononnonononononno :
Tv example is exactly true they shelf us all the time next to validators and orbiters
2026-09-19 22:44:55
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ashton.desmon
Ash :
leave me alone. almost been 2yr now
2026-09-19 13:34:57
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missboombox1
Boom :
Nope I’m good
2026-10-03 01:44:59
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rsxrtmxbunnyxcapt
💗xXBunnyXx💗 :
I'm the phantom ex
2026-09-18 21:26:49
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minatos_right_nut69
Minatos Rightnut :
and she has 1 month to be serious be serious about us again or the fact that "one day we can work" isn't enough. I want a family as soon as possible not when she decides its ok to give me that space in her life again.
2026-09-29 23:54:34
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txtaco4
TXtaco :
Oh heeeeelll nooooo
2026-10-04 04:41:31
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user16637262638182
no :
go to therapy😭
2026-09-18 19:12:36
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_sirensxng_
_sirensxng_ :
If they leave I’m moving on. Period. I did my best to hold things together when together. I’m not waiting while broken up so they can sleep with a whole football team of people. Nah. Done. Over. Bye.
2026-09-19 06:45:47
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amy_renae28
Amy Renae :
Great analogy
2026-10-11 17:48:24
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thebyron86
Bryan :
So we’re just seperated about a month n a half. After a long marriage. Things are finally settled. She’s def trying to put me here sex when she wants it. But didn’t want me sleeping around but doesn’t want anything really to do with me. Just to be completely free
2026-09-18 22:18:28
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katiekai1
KatieKai :
😁😁😁
2026-10-07 05:02:45
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