@cadyebs: This is our reality & know this was going to be the downside to building the life we wanted 💛

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ab.morrison
AspinBaby :
Just have a little baby moon between the two of you, the shower is just for fun! If people want to send a gift/diapers, they know where to find you❤️
2026-09-14 23:28:17
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_sanawilliams_
Sanawilliams :
Have a digital baby shower!! Still make a registry and open gifts onbcamera
2026-09-15 00:09:56
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mannirose
Manni :
I had a baby shower, spent a good amount on the party. Majority of the guests didn’t show & the ones that did didn’t bring a gift expect for a few. I wouldn’t have another baby shower if I got pregnant again.
2026-09-15 00:14:16
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shaniacrapeau
Shania Crapeau :
I’m so happy for this pregnancy ❤️❤️I’m watching these videos religiously lol
2026-09-14 23:33:28
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marisamitchell050812
Misadale :
You don’t need to justify your decision to anyone love. The real ones will support your choice no matter what you choose 🥰
2026-09-14 23:31:24
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felyshamoyer926
felyshamoyer926 :
Didn’t have a baby shower either for similar reasons! Totally feel ya!
2026-09-14 23:33:38
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britts99
britts99 :
Baby girl all the money you put into a shower and feeding them is what you can buy yourself with all that money and get what you like. I couldn’t have one due to living far alone but I don’t regret it now. I know people that spent $800+ for the party and didn’t get much
2026-09-14 23:48:15
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3_stax
ari :
Also so conflicted about the baby shower as a person with family far away🥲
2026-09-14 23:33:51
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saltysnacksz
Saltysnacks :
Girl how are your views? I just had a 2 hour nap watching this
2026-09-15 09:38:21
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krusader
Krusader :
That baby WILL be getting a Vikings jersey or onesie!
2026-09-14 23:37:14
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janeswrlddd
Janeswrlddd :
I would say do a baby brunch with your dearest family and friends. No gifts. Baby books signed by guest for family.
2026-09-15 00:43:51
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madiskeele
M A D I • Utah Mama 🫶🏼 :
diaper shower on an Amazon list. everyone sends the boxes of diapers. we did it and didn’t buy diapers for a year
2026-09-15 00:32:45
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username1843747482549599
username1843747482549599 :
Some people will still want to gift though, so do a registry if you’re picky about gifts :)
2026-09-15 00:31:46
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75_50_
. :
My piece of advice, you genuinely don’t have to explain anything to anyone. You both are allowed to do life exactly how you want, no explanations.
2026-09-15 06:36:52
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singlemombutnot
tedi :
We didn’t have one both times and it didn’t take our joy and people who wanted to support us asked and did
2026-09-15 09:03:51
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idontknow48713
idontknow48713 :
I would totally fly in the people who do check in and care after your home and recovered with the baby. then it's a bonus that they get to meet him/her. and they don't have to all come at once.
2026-09-15 04:45:36
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americaswarren
americaswarren :
i’m so early it’s glitching 🥰
2026-09-14 23:27:20
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saucy_pasta
saucy_pasta :
We’re not doing one because half of my wife’s family would be offended that they’re not invited, but they’re literally homophobes so like… why? Just not worth the stress, especially when it took us so long to get here
2026-09-14 23:49:05
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jc838832
JC :
What about a virtual baby shower and have an online baby registry. ❤️
2026-09-15 00:08:39
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oohdarlingkat
Katie✨ :
You DO NOT have to do a baby shower if you don’t want to🤦🏻‍♀️🙄 I’m pregnant right now and I didn’t do a baby shower. I’m picky and like I told my husband I am PICKY so it’s easier for us to not do one and just get the stuff we truly want. 😅
2026-09-15 00:21:04
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sewgurlie19
Sarah :
I didn’t do a baby shows for either of my kids! Honestly those who wanted to buy things showed up with gifts, and those who didn’t, I truly didn’t care! I find all these “party” and “celebrations” rather overrated, and unnecessary! But for those whom do it, I love that for them! It just wasn’t for me.
2026-09-14 23:44:02
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xxmaddss7
xx.mne.xx :
Just make a registry and send it to all so if they want to buy something they can and if don't then they don't have to
2026-09-14 23:33:46
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juliettebeaulieu6
Juliette Beaulieu :
I wouldn’t want a baby shower either to be honest lol. It’s so much work and I will celebrate with people when they are around to celebrate.
2026-09-14 23:35:17
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rainsagassige
rain🤡 :
Will you guys be doing a baby registry and add some “nice to haves” on there for your closest friends and family so they know what to buy if they want to buy something? I think it would be a great way to include those that you’re still close with
2026-09-14 23:38:08
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