its the only way I can seem to get off these days with perimenopause
2026-09-14 23:39:50
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Carla 🇬🇧 :
Sex toys were always hidden and not spoken about. Now my husband and I go shopping for them together and happily chat to the sales staff about them. Nothing to be ashamed of.
2026-09-15 12:14:24
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RizaBass :
Another consequence of being taught that sex is shameful, dirty and bad is that when you then get into a serious relationship, psychologically "consentual sex" feels like abuse. In my opinion this is one of the biggest contributions to unhealthy intemate relationships. It takes a lot of work to recondition that corrupted foundation that was laid from such a young age.
2026-09-15 21:17:28
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Lady Ninja :
I am my own bet lover. No man can ever meet my standards
2026-09-15 02:58:25
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noneya :
I was raised extremely religious. It's taken me 40 years to actually be ok with who I am. 😔 This is an extremely important message!!
2026-09-14 23:41:48
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Crystalhereandnow :
I was taught as a child- by my Mother- that my genitalia was “dirty” and shameful. Screwed me up sexually for YEARS!
2026-09-15 13:33:39
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Babyblues0228 :
Not ashamed at all!!
2026-09-15 19:52:44
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Auntibee :
I am 65 widowed, and not ashamed in the least.
2026-09-15 00:01:42
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m.scot :
we are also taught shame about our period products being in the trash. "wrap ur tampon/pad before you throw it away, no one wants to see that in the trash" ... ok but why?
2026-09-15 01:39:18
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🌱💨 Plant lover from BC 🇨🇦 :
My ex bf (early 50s) was shocked that I was so "in" my sexuality. He had never experienced someone who took what I want and was unapologetic about it. He said its one of the hottest things hes encountered in the bedroom. So ladies... GET IN YOUR SEXUALITY!!!
2026-09-15 21:53:35
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James(but a girl) :
I was raised in an evangelical cult and...self pleasure is wrong because, "you might develop feelings for a toy or your hand that is only meant for god." (DIRECT QUOTE). 😭 Took me till my late 20s for me to get comfortable with it.
2026-09-15 00:44:53
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rocknrollgur :
My daughter is in her 20’s and we’ve already had the talk about being each others person to dispose of our toy boxes if we die.
2026-09-15 16:54:29
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Kathy Meisner :
I was raised in an extremely Irish Catholic family but you know what in my twenties I realized I am who I am I'm not ashamed of what I do or who I am now and you know what I embrace my sexuality we should not be ashamed of our bodies we should not be ashamed of our sexuality we should not be shamed for anything guys are labeled players women are labeled whores it's ridiculous
2026-09-15 00:52:10
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Doggo mom :
One of my good friends who has been single for years says “can’t nobody love me like I can”
2026-09-15 17:37:55
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Dee133 :
Not ashamed here…I can love me better
2026-09-14 23:49:51
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Miuku :
That's true. Nothing to add.
2026-09-15 17:51:00
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unbotheredBlueprint :
I had to say to my female lady dr that it was effecting my husband before she recommend any help 😒
2026-09-14 23:50:24
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Wolfsong-Gen❌ :
Been save this for years
2026-09-15 06:32:39
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j.redrose.s :
I was in an abusive relationship for 10 years and only even tried toys after I left. My pervious partner would never let me have them. Then I met a good man, who absolutely was fine with the toys, and I happily don't need them Nearly that often anymore [Smile]
2026-09-15 00:49:33
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Missy Lemons955 :
The things I’m learning in my 50s …. MmmmHMMMM
2026-09-15 00:38:51
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xsqdwifgabel :
no guilt or shame ever!
2026-09-14 23:44:03
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diabeticalertservicedogP :
Bob never disappoints
2026-09-15 15:38:57
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Ambir_Adams :
I'm very loud and forward about my love of sex and self love. 😁
2026-09-15 03:24:33
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DianaNikolova :
My grandma told me that is dirty, shameful and disgusting to touch myself when i was a kid! Believe me when i say this my first ever orgasm with man was after I gave birth to my son! Rarely i can finish with a man. But I perfectly know how to please myself and I don’t need a man for that at all. 😁 But the impact of the words is so damaging … goosh
2026-09-15 05:12:22
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shell_bee79 :
PREACH 🙌
2026-09-15 02:34:57
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