@suziegotdauzi: My baby daddy sent me $300 yesterday and told me to use it for our son’s birthday party next weekend. Cool. This morning his girlfriend texted me asking if I could send $150 of it back because apparently he was supposed to use that money toward THEIR light bill and she didn’t know he sent it to me. 😭 I told her I’m not sending anything back because first of all… why are YOU texting me about money HE sent for HIS CHILD? She said, “I’m not trying to argue with you, but our lights are literally due to be cut off Monday and he already pays you every month.” So I called him. This man tells me, “Just send her $100 so she’ll calm down. I’ll give it back to you Friday.” HUH??? 😭 Now she’s mad because I said no, and HE’S saying I’m making a big deal out of it because the party isn’t until next weekend. But maybe I’m looking at it wrong because if their lights really are about to get cut off, I understand why she’s upset. I just don’t understand why fixing THEIR light bill requires me to return money you already gave me for OUR CHILD. 😭 Would y’all send the $100 back until Friday or tell both of them to figure it out?
Petty me would’ve sent $5 with a note “for candles xoxo”
2026-09-15 04:44:00
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Debbie Lynn Karpinsk :
If he pays his child support and sent that $300 EXTRA then i’d definitely send HIM the &150 so their lights are not cut off. he said he would send it back to you. If you want him to go the extra mile- you have to meet him halfway. If the electric is cut off he most likely won’t be doing anything extra for you anymore for awhile.
2026-09-16 02:25:06
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LOWGY :
hey... this was a reasonable and respectful request... it's also reasonable to not send anything back 🫶🏼
2026-09-16 18:07:27
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yapprincess078 :
I hope she leaves him if what she said was true😅 cause why would you send $300, knowing you got bills due..
2026-09-15 13:37:25
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Ana :
I love that neither pov is my life
2026-09-15 14:40:42
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Tara White :
IDK I see both sides
2026-10-25 21:44:05
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Rollercoasterride :
I’m confused, why does she have your number?
2026-09-15 00:23:21
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❤︎ruki❤︎ :
light at mama house, no light at daddy house 😭
2026-09-15 15:18:11
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ashley :
Legit, I’d send the money back. If your kid has to be there in the dark/heat/whatever, that’s not an environment you want him in.
2026-09-15 11:45:10
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nyxadowshay :
A man is not sending extra money when important bills are due. She didn’t like the amount sent. I’ve dealt with this. And if was an issue, the father would reach out
2026-09-15 17:51:35
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affirmationvibes :
everyone saying send it back? no! keep it and keep your son if they dont have electricity. baby daddy can figure that out. why we still solving grown man problems?
2026-09-15 14:21:46
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Bianca🩵 :
I would legit ask him, “do you NEED the money for the bill, or is this something she’s trying to control and upset about because you sent extra money.” Because the fact it didn’t come from him is where I’m confused.
2026-09-17 14:14:34
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Neverstopdreaming♍️❤️ :
Her comment about him giving money every month would have pissed me off and made me hesitate to send anything back. I would send it to him and let them figure it out though
2026-10-26 02:20:01
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Lifewiththeladds :
Idk I prolly send it if they’re actually about to go off but I’m feeling like she just don’t like the amount of! How is yall relationship?
2026-10-24 20:19:25
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Phatty | Lifestyle Creator :
First off, I would’ve never responded back to her.
2026-09-15 15:43:27
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DebofMS :
Maybe he sent it without telling her because he knew she would throw a fit. Just because she said it’s for the light bill doesn’t mean it is. I mean exactly half. Come on now!
2026-09-15 02:41:22
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kay kay :
i personally would send it back..i wouldn’t want my kid going to dads without electricity, and she asked nicely and was respectful. but at the same time, dad should be managing his money better.
2026-09-15 18:59:26
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NotStressinIt :
Because it probably was her money and he was trying to look like Mr Big Stuff and sent it to you. I would just leave his butt and not look back.
2026-09-15 10:32:59
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Auburnflare :
GF needs to find a different man because the fact he didn’t communicate with her before he sent extra (other than Child Support) would be a no for me. I am not saying he shouldn’t have sent it, but if I am with a man, sharing expenses , and working too, and he did that without making sure we could afford that amount, then I would be out of there.
2026-09-20 20:07:56
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ohgeemahdukes :
I would kindly send it. No need for the back and forth, or being uncouragable. If he'll give it back on Friday just go with it. What harm is it doing you?
2026-09-15 23:38:42
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✨️K✨️ :
Knowing me Id send the $300 back and block her. We good over here.
2026-09-20 04:08:54
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LdeC :
I’d say I spent it already … the gf overstepped boundaries by texting u asking for it back that’s his job not hers
2026-09-15 17:33:59
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Aye-Jay Darko :
I don’t get the people saying send the money back. The father sent the money for the child’s birthday and the father isn’t asking for the money back. If he was maybe considered it. But I wouldn’t send anything to the girlfriend. The light bill is due the same time every month. He had to know that when he sent it. To me it seems like she’s mad he sent that much to his ex for their child.
2026-09-16 23:18:36
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elizabethann245 :
Oh no. I HATE my BD and his gf with a blazing passion but if he sent me child support AND extra money for something AND told me he’d send me more in a couple days I’d absolutely send him the $150. My kids go to his house too and they need electricity there.
2026-09-20 03:55:59
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