@second_chancer: Asking how to step away and get clarity. Really trying to figure out what to do next.

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thoughtsntime1
thoughts & time :
Psychology degree!
2026-09-15 06:40:28
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shenanigans0273
shenanigans_stacy :
I am going through that now after losing my job. I am a writer (not professionally ) and I have struggled since COVID. I really have an interesting life story but to write feels impossible with the stress of life.
2026-09-15 03:33:22
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k2b2_realty
Keith :
Physically write down some of your biggest thoughts and ideas. It’s so freeing.
2026-09-16 04:24:01
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midge066
Me :
Do you think the past feels clearer because the hard parts have already been worked through? What you’re in right now hasn’t unfolded yet, so it feels foggy? I remind myself alot to not compare a finished chapter to the one that I am currently writing.
2026-09-15 01:52:36
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mommahnance
Nancy Guy Freeman :
I have no advice but I wish you the best!
2026-09-16 05:52:48
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rudyvegas
Rudy_Vegas :
We don't always come to a point of clarity and just have to choose, right or wrong, and learn from the paths we've taken. And it's ok if you choose wrong, that's life
2026-09-15 06:46:59
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speedy.gz
Speedy.Gz :
Analysis paralysis. What gives you peace to think about and what gives you anxiety? And how do those things compare or cross over to what makes you most uncomfortable in the best way possible?
2026-09-15 06:25:12
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triumpgirl
Triumphgirl :
A meditation, breath work, and yoga practice to get out of my head. Set aside time during the day or week to write, and connect with myself. It means the house isn’t spotless and I have simple meals so I have the energy and time for the important things.
2026-09-15 01:46:44
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blkbry77
Blkbry :
I hope you are able to find some clarity Jesse, just going through some craziness here figuring out balancing ♥️🥰
2026-09-15 05:38:35
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vaultboy1968
🇺🇸Willi@m🇺🇸 :
What is your dream? Once you decide what that is, let everything you do be in pursuit of accomplishing dream.
2026-09-15 03:23:29
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makeachoice84
Make a Choice :
Go to one of those spiritual egg shaped bath things. It's like a peaceful think tank, or so I hear!
2026-09-15 12:10:00
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olmlorna
MsLorna :
Write a book about your poetry
2026-09-15 02:15:40
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showcasesweets
Showcase Sweets :
You must give yourself some grace. Continue doing meditation, drawing, and writing. The clarity will come.
2026-09-15 01:10:57
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misty.leigh1
Mimi Misty :
Take a break from the phone for several days. A few hours won’t do the trick! Legit- unplug for as long as your life allows. Pre- record videos, do whatever needed and do it. It feels HORRIBLE at first but before you know it, you will be able to THINK again!
2026-09-15 03:40:32
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dieseldee99
Dee Harris-Hepburn :
I just thinking through it one day at a time and bounce it off others. Eventually I feel like it is clear. Like you most of us can't to weeks away to think it through.
2026-09-15 00:23:03
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donnaacton581
donnaacton581 :
Meditation
2026-09-15 01:10:31
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snarbar1
SnarBar 🥶 :
take up meditation
2026-09-15 03:47:04
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pups_mum
Pups_mum :
Find something you enjoy that distracts you. I get in the tub, turn on something that interests me enough and relax while working out the logics of the problem.
2026-09-15 00:19:12
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lydbids
Lydia Russell-Freeburn :
not sure if you're a person of faith, but if you are, have you heard about the Ignatian spiritual exercises. they're focused on getting clarity and experiencing the divine in everyday life. originally you would go on retreat, but now lots of people do them as a retreat in daily life. you could probably also apply the structure without the religious element if that's a better fit
2026-09-18 05:39:01
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andaleah79
andaleah79 :
it's 3 things that move me forward: exercise, new experiences, and time. exercise literally improves blood flow to the brain and decreases stress. new experiences shift my perspective. time... the struggle is part of the process
2026-09-16 04:06:45
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brwnsuga06
Melody :
Great name choice for your cat 🐈
2026-09-20 02:47:27
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