Erika Grundon
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User6252846 :
I will never grasp avoidants lack of self awareness
2026-09-15 10:55:52
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BLXCK〰️NOIZE :
lets make an island. and put all the avoidants on the island. so they can avoid each other together 🫶
2026-09-15 12:21:19
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PBandKelly :
“You’re suffocating me because I keep accepting your invite to hang out but I actually don’t want to do it so it’s actually your fault and now I’m bringing it up to make you feel bad.”
2026-09-15 22:09:45
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𝐂𝐲𝐧𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐚 :
As an avoidant, it’s your fault if you don’t communicate what you’re comfortable/uncomfortable with. Communication is a must in all relationships (not just romantic). If you’re not sure what you’re feeling but you know you’re uncomfortable, bring it up. Talk about it. The right partner will work with you, not against you. Exposure therapy will help.
2026-09-15 19:26:06
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shegobyshay :
This shouldn’t be funny but it is.
2026-09-24 13:42:46
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Veronica Reid :
they expect you to read their emotions and feelings because they refuse to acknowledge them for themselves 😳
2026-09-15 12:39:12
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Bry:) :
The people who are disagreeing with this don’t seem to grasp the point; it’s not about the needing space, it’s the fact that they keep showing up/agreeing to hang out and making it the other person’s fault that they don’t say no to hanging out. It’s like hating something you wear everyday. Why keep doing it if you dislike it so much?
2026-09-16 12:14:40
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liv :) :
Hear me out though: you don’t always know you’re going to feel uncomfortable until you feel uncomfortable. I’m not an avoidant. Actually a pretty anxious gal whose recent ex was EXTREMELY avoidant. My new boyfriend and I spend nearly every day together. Last week I had to say “hey, I think spending so much time together is not good for me, I still need some alone time”. I wasn’t agreeing to hang out despite discomfort, I just had to figure out exactly why I was feeling off. Ik this is a skit, but this IS the “avoidant” communicating and asking for space and expressing what they’ve realized.
2026-09-16 19:40:53
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geheiehejhehdnd :
Why can’t just avoidant’s date other avoidants
2026-09-23 17:52:07
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Robin Pace :
that response would make me never bring up anything ever again
2026-09-16 11:57:11
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Lyon Álfrún Stipsen ᚨᛚᚠ :
I am so thankful that my entire life of dating, I have managed to avoid, avoidants.
2026-09-16 10:18:19
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mercyofthesea :
Coming from a secure attachment, hearing that I should “just know” was WIIIIILLLLLLDDD. Like no baby, I am not a mind reader and it doesn’t help that you’re faking every possible context clue I could use to make an inference about how you actually feel 😭
2026-09-16 21:27:40
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adngayduh :
oh you triggered the avoidants in this comment section lmao 😭
2026-09-16 02:54:33
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Krista Nicole :
“Why do you keep spending time with me if you’re uncomfortable?” Literally that part.
2026-09-15 19:41:07
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✧ 🎀`ℰ𝓂𝓎 _`🐾～ ♡ :
Ніgh–funϲtіοnіng іѕ а рοlіtе ԝοrd fօr nеvеr ϲоmіng dօԝn. аnԝеn rеіd’ѕ аnхıеtу ԛuıꮓ nаmеd thаt ԝіthοut mаĸіng іt а ѕрееᴄh
2026-09-20 19:58:45
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Zero 🌀🦋🌾 :
They will always assume you can read their mind and blame you for overstepping not communicated boundaries and blame you for not understanding
2026-09-15 19:46:45
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𝓷𝜗ৎ :
ꓖіrlѕ͵ gеt “Τhе Реасе Υοu Κеер ꓖіvіng Аԝау” bу Clаіrе Μоrgаn. Ιt hеlреd mе undеrѕtаnd thаt рrοtеϲtіng уоur реаϲе dоеѕ nօt mаке уοu ᴄօld. Іt mеаnѕ үоu fіnаllү rеѕреᴄt уօurѕеlf.
2026-09-17 00:57:31
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SundayMoonz :
It seems to me that that person said I didn’t realize they was feeling this until I got to this tipping point and now I need to re-orient themsellf and that is a complete and reasonable response. For you to then go: “Well why didn’t you stop earlier?” They said I didn’t realize how much I felt like this until now!What part of them explaining themselves do you not want understand?
2026-09-16 19:52:27
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tatiana :
I know this supposed to be a negative view of avoidants but man does it show how annoying both extremes are
2026-09-16 02:50:02
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raquel 🌟 :
So if they don't spend enough time with them and say no to avoid this and then does the other person have an issue that they don't get enough time with avoidant? also this didn't even seem like an escalation. like they didn't know they were overextending until they started feeling over extended and communicated once they figured it out. the other person is asking how they can know it before they're told?????? but i don't think they necessarily would and shouldn't be concerned about predicting their feelings? i think it only escalated bc they kept questioning why they needed space?
2026-09-15 20:24:44
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Zap :
avoidants are the most toxic and abusive people ive met ive experience toxic sercure people toxic anxious people avoidants are the worst. and should heal their attachment style before getting in a relationship and hurting others and blaming thst person for the pain they caused.
2026-09-15 15:28:12
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Rebecca Mackenzie :
It’s like the same exact script that’s crazy haha
2026-09-15 05:22:30
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Not :
then will have a bestfriend they act like they can’t go 3 hours without talking to. But cause the friend enables them and they don’t feel cornered and attacked by having to be held accountable they don’t “lose themselves”
2026-09-16 10:15:25
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