Lalo Ani :
Hi, I’m reaching out because I really need some honest relationship advice.
My ex wife and I separated in December 2025. She left with our 7 month old daughter, and I believe her cousin had a lot of influence on her decision to leave. Her cousin also gave me a restraining order telling me not to contact or see them. My ex wife was also afraid of getting into trouble with the law, so I respected the situation and stayed away.
After a few months, something started happening that has been confusing me. My ex wife started viewing my Facebook stories. At first I didn’t think too much about it, but it kept happening. One time I noticed her name among the people who viewed my story, so I texted her because I still had feelings for her. She blocked me.
Then, just a day later, she created another Facebook account and started viewing my stories again. I noticed it was her and I told her honestly how I still felt about her. She never replied to what I said and blocked me again, but she continued viewing my Facebook stories.
She is still doing it now. She keeps coming back and viewing my stories, and it has almost become a habit. But she never actually reaches out or talks to me.
The difficult part is that I still like her. I haven't completely let go of her, and honestly, that is why I have left the door open. When I see her viewing my stories, part of me starts wondering if she still has feelings for me or if she is thinking about me. But at the same time, I know that viewing someone's stories doesn't necessarily mean they want to come back.
I don't want to keep getting my hopes up over social media views. I also don't want to chase her because I have already told her how I feel and she didn't respond. I'm trying to understand whether I should keep the door open because I still love her, or whether I should accept the situation and start completely moving on.
I would really appreciate your honest advice. What do you think I should do in this situation, especially when she keeps watching my stories but never actually communicates with me?
2026-10-03 17:44:18