@daniraymundo:

scarol :

During my marriage: 'you're kind of mean to him, he's such a good husband'. During my divorce: 'well why didn't you tell us what he was doing to you all those years, why didn't you leave earlier!'. Always the woman's fault in the eyes of society, regardless.

user84425554442 :

The moment I tell them the whole story, I made sure that I am already over it.

juliana :

even when it ended, i never talked abt it. it would be a shame if i do -- i'll just give people the details of how unloveable i am.

Bri :

sometimes it’s because i don’t want them to pity me

𝔈𝔩𝔩𝔦𝔧𝔞 :

because there are some things we can forgive but our friends, family, etc cannot. minsan its better that way but most of the time, i’d rather share the stuff he does wrong kase minsan blind tayo sa pag ibig na hindi na natin nakikita ang mali.

J :

This! The shit he put me through was so embarrassing I couldn't even tell my closest friend.

mocha 🪐 :

we broke up in april and i still can’t bring myself to tell anyone everything

️ emerson :

wait i cant talk here email me

le cleisen :

in my case my friends hated him anyway so they were really happy when we broke up lmao

moura °❀.ೃ࿔* :

put off going to therapy because i didn’t want to hear that he was the very root of my problems

Princess :

Am I wrong to speak out how I was treated in the relationship even though I don’t wanna make him the bad person just because story ko to pero that’s how I feel and hindi naman ako martyr to suppress how I feel.

cahl :

kaya hindi na aq naiinggit sa mga relatioships lately cause i know behind those, they both have something to endure to make the relationship work

lee. :

until today, there are still a lot of people that thought he's THE green flag guy ... even our closest friends :] it seems like if i open up, i'll be the one who got shamed by the others since there's a rumor circulated around that i am the one that makes our relationship ended, not all the way around. it takes toll on me since i have to do some 6 months project and 2 months of volunteering with him while people around me are still praising him. he's all good getting close to another girl while im standing with wounded up heart here because he never said sorry :]

eya :

the way this post made me feel seen after bottling everything up🥹

ViktorsFirstHexstrap :

people still don't know it all

nea.kei :

hid it so hard but when i told my family about it, that’s the limit

JusztAlex :

i wish i could love shamelessly ughhhh

mf :

been there done that

chai🍵 :

aduh mereka baru tau 1/10 dari kisah gue. kalau circle gue tau full storynya bisa dipiting gue ga dibolehin deket sama siapapun lagi WKWKWKW 😭

minx :

Cause I desperately believe he’s not that kind of person, that we both are lacking at some point. That me, myself also treat him bad sometimes. So, that will remain a secret between us.

Damon_Dwriter :

call me bad but i tell my REAL friends about the truth because it hurts so bad but still defend his name whenever i hear someone talkshit about him without fully knowlimg him.

celibate :

liv ౨ৎ :

why do we all do this

Rei☆ :

When I finally revealed to my friends what my relationship was actually like, they had a hard time believing me because whenever I was with them, I always spoke so positively about my ex. They even told me they were jealous because my relationship seemed so perfect and mature. What they didn’t know was that it was the complete opposite of what I told them, because I didn’t want anyone to hate my ex—someone I loved so much. I protected his name and fought for him, even when it meant facing huge consequences myself. In the end, he still left me, and that’s when I realized just how blinded I was by love. Now, I’m choosing to focus on myself. The lover girl in me deserves the ultimate self-love and self-respect—the very things I took away from her just for that guy. This time, I’m choosing myself and so should ya'll🫂🥹