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Elizabitch :
No is seen as a challenge rather than an answer. Young girls hear “he only hits you because he likes you.” Young boys hear “never give up.”
2026-09-15 12:30:56
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schmiggy.azalea :
We need to start asking them the uncomfortable question of “why do you want somebody who doesn’t want to sleep with you to say yes so badly?” And “you do know coercion is SA right?” Because clearly reflecting on their own is too hard
2026-09-15 16:06:05
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dis (floof always a victim) :
I remember a lady on here posted about how her big dogs are trained to protect her. The comments were flooded with men saying they wanted to take on the "challenge" of ki11ing the dogs so they could "win" 🍇 ing her. 🙁
2026-09-15 18:30:51
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FightingWhileOnEmpty🆘🇺🇸 :
My first boyfriend got off on me crying. Every time I was sad or feeling down he became a dog. I can still hear him whisper “is it wrong I like it when you cry?” I haven’t spoken to him for over a decade, but I still think of that. I hope his wife is okay.
2026-09-15 15:13:26
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happyhullaballoo :
One of my exes told me he got turned on when girls cried…. 😬
2026-09-15 17:08:10
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sgr_a_starxx :
I promise this is relevant, but this is what bothers me about the song “baby it’s cold outside”. Everytime I’ve brought up how the song makes me uncomfortable, the argument I’m always met with is “well back in the day it was socially unacceptable for women to say yes, so they had to say no even when they meant yes. It’s a consensual game the man and woman are playing” to which I argue. No. This culture that dictates “when women say no, they mean yes” is DANGEROUS. Nobody believes those of us who say no and mean it because they’re fantasizing about this hypothetical woman who’s secretly really into it even if she’s actively telling you no.
2026-09-15 21:06:15
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London :
The guy I lost my virginity to got turned on when I would physically push him back and say he was hurting me… he made me think it was my fault because I just needed to “get used to it” and it would hurt less the more I did it. It never got less painful.
2026-09-15 14:17:44
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✨Kitties_and_CoffeeBreaks✨ :
They see it as a challenge 😭😭😭
2026-09-15 17:46:56
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T🏎️💨🏁🧡 :
“No? But your entire existence as a woman is only being tolerated on the basis that you serve me as a man” thats what they think internally
2026-09-16 12:46:34
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The Andalusian Queer 🍉🫒🦊🐶 :
They love to cage the free bird
2026-09-15 14:30:24
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Edweirdo :
they see an argument as a conversation too
2026-09-15 19:27:05
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Angielikestoexplore :
I know so many men like this!!
2026-09-15 14:21:52
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Teri Tighe :
folks back in my day always said "what part of no do you not understand" and this always runs through my head in these situations. they take these situations as a challenge, for sure. 😡
2026-09-15 13:42:02
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lizthrash :
they dont think its a problem 😩
2026-09-15 14:32:23
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maryann_can :
There are also men who get turned-on by fighting with you. That overlaps with the "no" ones.
2026-09-15 17:01:49
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pinkysue_loo :
I regularly tell my nephew to listen to people’s words and respect their choices and consent is more important than what he wants. He’s 12 I’ve been saying it for years now. I’m hoping while he brushes me off in the moment that he’s actually taking it in and remembers in the right moment
2026-09-15 15:28:59
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holamellamokas :
It’s abusive
2026-09-15 18:57:17
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Mysterious Leg Bruise :
I believe this is encouraged & continues to be trained in sales culture. Companies literally tell staff “no means maybe, convince me” & a challenge. They froth at the mouth at the challenge. The apply this to every aspect in their life.
2026-09-15 15:49:06
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motherhac :
it becomes a challenge or competition, to hear a no sparks their entitlement in men.
2026-09-15 17:03:00
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malley048 :
I don’t give a man a chance to talk to me. I put on a bitchy face and exude the most unapproachable energy.
2026-09-15 17:42:48
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lisashmisa14 :
I want to make it clear I am NOT defending men - ever. But so much of our media show love as something you get after persevering or convincing - typically a man convincing a woman - to give them a shot. And I don’t know what I mean to say by pointing that out but I think it needs to be involved in the conversation.
2026-09-15 13:53:49
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Captian Copper :
unfortunately there is also rhe context that this is encouraged and created by our dating structure where women expect men to make the first move and push to get a date so that women are chased. in other countries women are required to make the first move and it eliminates alot of these issues
2026-09-15 15:30:47
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devilishdesmond :
its why i ultimately cant get behind acting out cnc because i j do not think its healthy for the perpetrator whether its their k or not to be actively associating no w pleasure
2026-09-16 03:10:37
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MashaCuntHunt :
I have learned that encouraging them to entertain me with their insults, shut them up really fast. Because apparently I enjoy it obviously they don’t like it.
2026-09-15 16:05:39
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Stacicats :
Or they take your No as a “not right now”
2026-09-15 18:32:37
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