Being neurodivergent in a split household is a lot. I would get overwhelmed with going back and forth between households because you have to get acclimated each time. Think about each time he goes to a new environment as a reset button. So he may come back with new good or bad habits or forgotten habits y’all establish before.
2026-09-15 12:33:36
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Thatbougie_cousin :
I go thru the same crap with my son who’s also neurodivergent 😩
2026-09-15 12:24:59
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Alexis Ambitious Brisbon :
Hey hey, therapist here. 👋🏾Systems, systems, systems... he needs systems to help him keep track of his daily task. Each day needs to be dedicated to a certain task so that he's not overwhelmed with it all-- once he completed the task he checks it off and he's able to do something positive that yall come up with. If he doesn't complete the task he'll have double the next day.. if he has 2 days of doubles task than you take something from his weekend. I'm in Ga but I would love to work with you and Miles on how to generate some functional systems for you and him. Let's connect❤️
2026-09-15 14:27:23
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JustAJazzy1 :
Dang I thought I was the only one
2026-09-21 00:22:55
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Mz.Freeman26 :
Is that a pot
2026-09-17 01:15:15
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Dyamond Nicole 💕 :
Not that’s a roach 😭😭😭 kb i died 🤣🤣 trust me i get it
2026-09-15 15:08:50
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FredSanford_410 :
Go Bears
2026-09-21 20:31:40
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BenSon :
Yall let yall kids do way too much. My kids know I don’t play that, I check them rooms daily
2026-09-15 19:44:31
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iyana mm. :
As somebody who is somebodies neurodivergent child…. Pls always check under the bed and the closet too. 😭
2026-09-15 13:32:21
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Vyannkuitfri :
He is just a boy, I don’t know any boy that don’t do that 🤷🏾♂️.
2026-09-15 14:08:31
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Noy873 :
get him a behavioral therapist & someone for you to vent to as well. with boys you always gotta look under the bed, in the cabinets & all the nooks & crannies. if you can find a mentor for him that would be dope too. and give him chores as well 🥰
2026-09-15 14:22:47
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irasymone205 :
lol boys are so trifling omg
2026-09-16 22:18:49
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Joe Cool :
Get him on a schedule with a plan on how to do it. Consistency becomes his system of taking care of his room/house
2026-09-15 19:57:26
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MrsMaidenLovesMusic :
It’s all kids…😩 but once my sons got older they got 💯 % better. In fact, my oldest son keeps his home immaculate.
2026-09-15 14:16:02
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Divine Empress Company :
Bobbi omg do we have the same son I’m so glad to know that i am not the only one dealing with this with my son
2026-09-15 17:40:27
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Kandie Kane :
Cousin I’m telling you!! My 5 year old boy!! I was like how in the WORLD!!!! Ugh! Under his bed is another house!
2026-09-15 16:39:34
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Erica :
This is all kids. I can't even send mine anywhere. 😂 Maybe their grandparents will take them 🤔
2026-09-15 13:19:14
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Jaszy Gonzalez :
i DO NOT play with bugs I make mine pick up everyday so it stays clean . Deep cleaning / Chores on Saturdays too , they get a little weekly allowance IF I DONT HAVE TO TELL THEM TO DO THEY SHITT they have a cash app card thats what's been working for us.
2026-09-15 14:16:42
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KHI 📸 :
Was he hiding the trash from you? If so, I’d tell him I’d rather see him taking the trash out from his room rather than hide it. My little cousin had this issue and said her mom would yell at her or make comments about the trash as she was cleaning/taking it out so she would hide it and forget about it 😂😂
2026-09-15 12:45:24
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Monique :
I am so happy you have high expectations and not just allowing him to keep a dirty room.
2026-09-19 08:58:26
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angelwalker855 :
You are doing right im so OCD i had two boys
2026-09-15 14:55:46
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Anji_🤗 :
Them boys that’s how my boys do
2026-09-15 23:15:37
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Tracy :
You outta see my son room Jesus!!
2026-09-15 23:24:31
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shariepluz2💅🏽🩷🎀 :
My son is like that. My son sees a therapist a sign of ADHD…. It’s like the more I tell him not to be he more he does
2026-09-16 10:58:57
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Pookie :
The way you zoomed in and said "that's a roach" [Tears of joy] I'm sorry but I busted out laughing [Tears of joy]
2026-09-15 14:24:05
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