I stayed, he changed and has been so good to me, but something in me died. Not sure how to explain it, its been 3 years and I’m still hurting it comes in waves.
2026-09-16 03:17:54
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kim :
i tried. here i am, 8 months later. resentment is here and LOUD. and i cant ask a question or have an insecurity because thats on me apparently. i dont feel pretty and ive lost myself. i left him today.
2026-09-15 18:59:16
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Mia :
The one thing that will never make me go back to someone who’s cheated on me is I’ve heard from numerous women that you don’t stop thinking about it. You think about it when he gets down on one knee, you think about it when you’re at your wedding, you think about it when you decide to try for your first born, you think about it when you’re giving birth, you think about it when you hold ur first child
2026-09-15 17:02:04
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alekpralek :
yeah, I ended in a happy and healthy relationship, with SOMEONE ELSE
2026-09-16 08:03:56
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SpaceMommie :
Ya. A year and a half into the relationship I found out. We got together after horrific divorces. I left him for 3 months we got back together. He gave me location full access to his phone, he actively stopped drinking and CHANGED. he also allowed me to lash out and go through the ups and downs of getting through a betrayal. 3 years later we are in an amazing place.
2026-09-15 17:08:15
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Shayy🚀 :
You never fully trust them again and the resentment never really leaves.
2026-09-16 00:35:01
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natalyherndon :
My therapist told me it shouldn't take someone, losing you or almost losing you to value you. And from experience, they never change. They only get better at hiding it. and pretending
2026-09-15 17:22:02
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. :
All imma say is if you decide to take someone back after cheating you can never hold it against them again. It can’t come up in arguments. You can’t tell them it still hurts you 5 years down the line. If you can’t forgive them and move on you’ll never be in a happy healthy relationship with them. If the first apology wasn’t enough no apology will ever be enough. You’ll spend the rest of the relationship chasing something that will never exist. You’ll both just end up resenting each other and they’ll probably end up cheating again
2026-10-04 14:00:05
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Lex :
There’s this scene is sex in the city (I think) where she runs up flights of stairs to run and ‘catch’ her husband cheating again, but he isn’t. And she gets frustrated because no matter what, it’ll always cause that suspicion and insecurity. you’ll feel like you’re rushing home always, you’ll always check their location, you’ll always want to go through the phone and see if that persons stepped out again. It’s never worth the stress to your mental health.
2026-09-15 23:45:42
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Hanginwithangie :
The resentment never really goes away. There can still be good time but a wave of resentment will roll over you when you least expect it. Things just can never be like it was before.
2026-09-15 16:32:15
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bozojoss :
I wanna say Whitney Leavitt and Connor Leavitt. obviously i dont know them but they genuinely got sp much life back in their eyes and lives.
2026-09-15 21:38:56
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MYGJJK⁷ :
I agree with the people that say it changes you. I always think of that moment on Friends where Ross just cheated on Rachel and she says "I used to think of you as somebody that would never, ever hurt me"....there is no fairy tale left, even the realistic ones. Now it's a choice and work. Can it be done? yes..but it won't ever feel magical again.
2026-09-15 23:21:27
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tesssaaaaaax :
Leave. They don’t change they get better at hiding it from you. You are worth more. You are worth exactly the kind of love you give, don’t accept less than that.
2026-09-15 17:22:06
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carmeen.delgadom :
staying after cheating IS just disrespecting yourself
2026-09-16 10:33:26
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Catherine :
He changed, I didn’t. He really tried and we’d be in happy moments and I’d remember and it stole my joy. His cheating didn’t just ruin the relationship present but it’s future. One night it was nagging at me extra and I went to look at his phone just to prove to myself he changed; only to find he changed the pass code. I didn’t want an explanation, I was just done. May he never do to another woman what he did to me.
2026-09-16 03:34:39
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AlecUnscripted ♌️ :
I was cheated on by my ex wife multiple times, gave her chance after chance after chance. Once a cheater, always a cheater. It never gets better, you only continue breaking yourself in the long run, while the cheater gets away Scott free. You can love someone and still let them go
2026-10-04 16:44:25
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rhiannonclate :
You will ALWAYS think about it. Always.
2026-09-16 05:42:54
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anaisherrera :
It’ll change you forever. You won’t even trust yourself to make “proper” decisions. It’ll ALWAYS be in the back of your mind regardless of how much y’all “worked through it” you’ll never be the same again
2026-09-15 22:54:04
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M :
I always looked at him cheating as a sign of disrespect more than anything. And when someone doesn’t respect you when they’re supposedly in love with you, they never will. That doesn’t change even if he claims he does.
2026-09-16 01:46:55
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JaKaLfOsHaKaL :
It doesn’t change the relationship it changes you
2026-09-15 22:06:35
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🐝raylee :
he cheated. i forgave him. then he stoped being attractive to me, he stopped being funny, he irritated me easily, he smelt weird, my body was rejecting him. and during all that time he was trying to go above and beyond showing me that he’s a changed man and that we could grow together and still love each other the same. i left him. im with someone new now. i feel so much better ❤️
2026-09-17 11:01:51
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glowupwithnessa :
Leave. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2026-09-15 18:14:49
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Peta-Gaye :
Cheating back was the only way I could move past it. We’re in a good place now as the slate is clean and even.
2026-09-17 05:33:36
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Huntyr Lohgyn :
After 5 years I just found out he cheated again
2026-09-15 16:46:36
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𝒾𝓋𝓎 🎀 :
i firmly believe once a cheater, always a cheater. if said person loved you as they claimed, cheating wouldn’t even cross their mind to begin with. i’m not giving second chances on loving me, you either do or don’t. the chance i give you to begin with is you opportunity to prove that answer to me. i won’t make myself suffer any longer than i have in the past. your actions are not my fault, therefore i won’t be the one holding the burden of that betrayal. you can live with that, without me.
2026-09-16 01:55:15
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